Although temporarily setting aside romantic affairs in his life, El does not close his heart to women who approach him. However, so far El feels that he has not found the right person to be his lover. EL Rumi believes that the woman who becomes his lover must be on the same frequency and connect when invited to chat. Unfortunately, so far EL Rumi has had difficulty finding a potential lover who meets his criteria.

Regarding the plan of his younger sibling, Dul Jaelani, who is likely to surpass him by marrying Tissa Biani, El Rumi as an older brother will always support his decision. Even El Rumi firmly stated that it is not a problem if Dul gets married before him. El Rumi takes this gracious attitude because currently, marriage and having a partner are not his main concerns.