Three Failed Marriages, Risty Tagor: When There's a Problem, I'm Sad

Dream - Risty Tagor admits that she sometimes feels sad because she doesn't have a life partner. Because there is no longer a place to talk about her life problems.

"Personally, when I have problems, I'm sad," said Risty Tagor in Jakarta, Tuesday, April 4, 2023.

However, the woman who has been married three times doesn't want to dwell on sadness. She tries to bounce back by keeping herself busy with work.

"That shouldn't last long, we have to immediately find a solution. So, I don't get stuck in the past," said Risty Tagor.

Although she has to raise her three children alone, Risty doesn't see it as a problem. She also doesn't want to get married again because she doesn't want her marriage to end in divorce again.

"Basically, anything that is not about my children and career is no longer the main focus," she added.

Risty believes in God's plan, and if it's time for her to find the right partner, she will definitely get married again.

"So, because it's not a priority, whether I want it or not, I don't think about it. But whatever it is, I believe that Allah has the best plan for us," she said.

Divorced for 8 Years, Rifky Balweel Admits to Having a Good Relationship with Risty Tagor

Dream - Rifky Balweel admits that his relationship with Risty Tagor is still good even though they divorced in 2014. He even mentioned that his current wife, Bibi Alraen, is also very close to his ex-wife.

Especially when it comes to their children, according to Rifky, his wife and Risty Tagor are quite active in communicating, especially since their houses are nearby.

"Just relax, like neighbors. Always discuss about Arsen's matters, what's best," said Rifky Balweel in Jakarta, recently.

Rifky entrusts his wife to take care of their son from his marriage with Risty Tagor, Arsen. He believes that Bibi Alrean can provide the best for their son.

"My wife takes care of most of the tasks now. Because we are neighbors, communication is easier," he said.

Meanwhile, regarding Arsen's development, Rifky admits that his son has started to show interest in the opposite sex. Currently, Arsen is 11 years old.

"There was a time when his mother said that Arsen was chatting with girls," Rifky said.

"We just laugh it off, like 'you're not ready to have a girlfriend yet, wait until you're in fifth grade'. We just laugh when we see that," Rifky added.

Risty Tagor welcomes this year's Eid with joy because she can reunite with her extended family. For the past two years, the former wife of Rifky Balweel hasn't been able to celebrate Eid with her family due to the Covid-19 pandemic.

"During the pandemic, my sister who has a baby was afraid to meet me because I was always going out. So, God willing, this year's Eid I can reunite with my family. That's a must," said Risty Tagor in Jakarta, recently.

For the Eid tradition in her family, Risty Tagor said her mother will cook traditional Sumatran dishes, which is their ancestral region.

"Our family is from Sumatra. So, the dishes that are definitely there are balado, ketupat, rendang, my mother's beef balado, and my mother always makes shrimp with stinky beans balado," she said.

In addition, the 33-year-old actress has also prepared Eid bonuses for her family, especially her numerous nieces and nephews.

"Of course, there are many nieces and nephews. They will definitely come first. That's why I miss the time when I only received Eid bonuses until high school. After that, I prepare Eid bonuses for my nieces and nephews," she added.

After a long absence, Risty Tagor is once again the talk of netizens due to her appearance in the Instagram account @admin_igtainment.

The account uploaded Risty Tagor's TikTok video. In the video, Risty shows her OOTD during a vacation in Lembang, West Java.

Risty looks relaxed wearing light blue pants combined with a gray outer. She chooses an army green hijab, which makes her appearance look different.

This post received a lot of comments from netizens who noticed Risty's different appearance. Formerly, the ex-wife of Rizky Balweel often appeared in a modest fashion, but in the photo, she looks relaxed wearing pants.

"It's easy to change, but it's hard to be consistent. Hopefully, she remains consistent in wearing the hijab," said the account @wied.uwied.

"It's okay, maybe she's bored of always wearing long dresses. Just don't be like those blue tick influencers who eventually take off their hijab and wear revealing clothes, it's really sad," said the account @anggimartha.

"It's more like an OOTD, it's okay as long as it's still modest and she's still wearing the hijab," said the account @tiina_theresia.

Risty Tagor is currently facing malicious rumors. She is rumored to have divorced her third husband. The mother of three has never directly confirmed these rumors to the public.

However, Risty wrote a statement that seemed to respond to the rumors. She mentioned reaping the rewards of good deeds amidst the malicious gossip about her personal life.

"I'm very grateful that I'm currently reaping the rewards of good deeds like this... slander, backbiting, and oppression directed towards me can make them earn money to live and eat... life is about our choices, whether we seek blessings or not," Risty Tagor wrote on her Instagram account, Thursday, September 2, 2021.

According to the 32-year-old woman, her current life with her children is happy. Despite the ongoing gossip about her marriage with her third husband.

"Even though I, my children, and everyone I care about are happy, focusing on our own lives here. Thank you very much to all of you. May Allah reward you with goodness. What Allah wills is the best," she said.

Previously, Risty also hinted that her relationship with her husband is in a good condition. She posted a photo of her family on vacation together.

In the caption of the photo, Risty mentioned the initial of her husband, P. P is the initial of the man she recently married and is described as a lawyer.

"Happy behind the mask. Throwback to Arkana's birthday 2021. Photos taken by one & only Mr. P," Risty wrote, adding a red heart emoji at the end of the sentence.

Risty's post immediately sparked discussions among netizens. They talked about the initial P mentioned by Stuart Collin's ex-wife.

"Oh, Mr. P, honey roasted peanuts, right @ristytagor," wrote the account @avinindablwl.

"MashaAllah, always be happy and healthy, the good people in the photo and the one who took the photo!!," wrote the account @wulandaaaaari.

"P = Prikitiw," wrote the account @drmbiey.