Unfulfilled Expectations, Inara Rusli Reveals Reasons for Accepting Virgoun as Husband

Dream - Inara Rusli revealed the reasons for accepting Virgoun as her husband. The mother of three, whose marriage is on the verge of divorce, chose Virgoun as her life partner because he possessed the qualities of an ideal man that she desired.

"He used to be good. Until a few years into our marriage, he was good. I even made a statement that he had all the qualities of an ideal man," said Inara Rusli as quoted by Dream from the YouTube channel CURHAT Bang Denny.

Photo: @mommy_starla

Inara also revealed that her decision to marry Virgoun was not based on popularity or wealth, which the singer of the song "Surat Cinta Untuk Starla" possessed at the time.

Moreover, she continued, they both had popularity because they had both worked as entertainers.

"I was also surrounded by important people. Why did I choose him? Because that was his advantage," she added.

However, the image of the ideal man changed after Virgoun's character slowly started to change. Inara revealed that her husband repeatedly betrayed her and had affairs with other women.

This reality is what ultimately disappointed Inara and caused her psychological distress.

"My psyche is often affected, he directly mentioned another woman," said Inara.

The 30-year-old woman also admitted that the desire to separate actually came from her. However, at that time Virgoun rejected her and promised to improve himself.

"But it happened again. Both of us are victims of a broken home (know) how painful it is. I tried to fix it but it's difficult," she added.

Mocked for Being More Playful, Inara Rusli Gives a Sharp Response

Dream - Since deciding to remove her veil, Inara Rusli has become more active on social media. She often uploads photos to Instagram, to the point where netizens call her playful because she is praised for being beautiful and charming.

"It turns out that she's not as graceful as she appears on social media," commented one netizen shown by Inara in a TikTok video @inaraidol19.

Inara doesn't care about those comments. She considers those comments to be deliberately made to seek attention.

"There are people who only exist to be able to read their sarcastic comments," replied Inara Rusli.

The woman who is currently filing for divorce from her husband, Virgoun, does not allow anyone who has a negative impact to enter her life.

"I don't allow it," she said.

Asked Not to Excessively Dress Up, Inara Rusli Gives a Powerful Response

Dream - Many netizens have criticized Inara Rusli's decision to remove her veil after separating from Virgoun. One netizen even advised Inara not to dress up excessively.

"Sorry, Sister Ina, you are still in the waiting period after divorce, so you are not allowed to dress up," commented Instagram account @_halcyon29.

The account hopes that Inara will only remove her veil. The netizen does not want Inara to violate other rules taught by religion.

"Just remove the veil, don't violate the others, hehe," added the account @_halcyon29.

Not only giving advice, the account even compared Inara to Umi Pipik. According to the account, Umi Pipik does not dress up in front of the public and in front of the camera after the death of her husband, Ustaz Jefri Al Bukhori.

"Maybe Sister Inara can learn a lesson and example from that, thank you," added the account @_halcyon29.

Inara responded to the comment. She thanked them for the input, but she cannot ignore her living expenses.

"I can't rely on school and my children's meal expenses. Thank you for your concern," Inara replied.

This post was reposted by the account lambe_turah, and netizens who saw it also commented.

"More and more disgusting over time..." said the account @agung_jefri.

"It's as if Virgoun doesn't provide for his children, seek forgiveness, sis," responded the account @ijuull_93.

"There are many single moms out there but they are not as noisy as this person," wrote the account @dav_vivid.