The story of Zhadan, which was originally shared through a thread on X, has sparked intense debate among netizens. Many are questioning the morality of using AI tools to find partners online. Meanwhile, Zhadan says that her story might change the way people use online dating sites.

"In Tinder, users swipe left, then right. After that, they start a conversation with a potential partner. But not long after, that online date will just disappear. According to Zhadan, it's just a waste of time. But not with the AI tool, ChatGPT."

"After learning about ChatGPT, he was curious whether ChatGPT could create a more efficient online dating experience. Zhadan then shared how he used ChatGPT to find his match. First, he asked ChatGPT to review 5,239 women's dating profiles that he had obtained."

"Zhadan wants ChatGPT to remove profiles that he thinks he won't click on based on a number of filters. Such as having less than two profile pictures, relying too much on astrology, or prioritizing religion. Zhadan also will not click on profiles with political views and photos that are too 'revealing'. He feels that this is an important part of the process, both for him and for his potential matches. Because they do not want to waste time interacting."

"Then, we arrive at the difficult part - training ChatGPT to communicate with potential partners according to their criteria. In an interview with Settlers Media, Alexander stated that he needed about 120 hours of work to make this AI tool reach the level he desired."

"However, ChatGPT is not perfect. One time, ChatGPT arranged a date with a girl without sending a notification to Zhadan. This caused the girl to wait for Zhadan's response for more than one and a half hours. At another time, the AI program scheduled a date in Bitsa Park in Moscow, a forest where a famous serial killer disposed of his victims' bodies in the 2000s."

"Even though everything revolves around ChatGPT, Zhadan admitted that he still prioritizes emotional interaction. "We must not forget emotional interaction. I date and evaluate the girls I meet."

"Based on the dating results, I made a review (what I liked, what I didn't like) and added it to the database." Then I decided whether to continue communicating or not (using ChatGPT)," explained Zhadan."

"However, Zhadan reminds that finding a partner using ChatGPT is truly exhausting and costly. 'I worked for 120 hours and spent US$1,432 to buy the ChatGPT API,' he revealed. Nevertheless, Zhadan still acknowledges that ChatGPT has helped save time and costs in searching for a partner online."