The story of Zhadan, which was initially told through a thread on X, has sparked intense debate among netizens. Many question the morality of using AI tools to find a partner online. While Zhadan says his story may change the way people use online dating sites.

"In Tinder, users swipe left, then right. After that, they start a conversation with potential partners. But shortly after, the online dating friend will disappear just like that. According to Zhadan, it's just a waste of time. But not with the AI tool, ChatGPT."

After knowing ChatGPT, he was curious whether ChatGPT could create a more efficient online dating experience. Zhadan then explained how he used ChatGPT to find his soulmate. First, he asked ChatGPT to review 5,239 dating profiles of women that he obtained.

Zhadan wants ChatGPT to delete profiles that he believes he won't click on based on a number of filters. Such as having less than two profile pictures, relying too much on astrology or prioritizing religion. Zhadan also won't click on profiles with political views and photos that are too 'revealing'. He feels that this is an important part of the process, both for him and for the candidates. Because they don't want to waste time interacting.

Then, it comes to the difficult part - training ChatGPT to communicate with potential partners according to their criteria. In an interview with Settlers Media, Alexander said that it took him about 120 working hours to get this AI tool to the level he likes.

However, ChatGPT is not perfect. One time, ChatGPT arranged a date with a girl without sending a notification to Zhadan. This caused the girl to wait for Zhadan's response for over an hour and a half. Another time, the AI program scheduled a date in Bitsa Park, Moscow, a forest where a notorious serial killer disposed of his victims' bodies in the 2000s.

"Although everything is ChatGPT, Zhadan admitted that he still prioritizes emotional interaction. 'We must not forget emotional interaction. I go on dates and make judgments about the girls I meet.'"

"Based on the results of the date, I made a review (what I liked, what I didn't like) and added it to the database. Then, I made a decision whether to continue communicating or not (using ChatGPT)," explained Zhadan.

However, Zhadan reminds that finding a life partner using ChatGPT is truly exhausting and costly. "I worked for 120 hours and spent $1,432 to buy the ChatGPT API," he expressed. Nevertheless, Zhadan still acknowledges that ChatGPT has helped save time and costs in searching for a life partner online.