Dream - A woman from Surabaya named Ida Susanti tells a heartbreaking story that she has experienced for decades. How could it not be, the love that was nurtured from the beginning had to wither after finding out that her husband was actually a woman. In a post on her Twitter account @yolayola11063, Ida explained the beginning of her encounter with a man in June 2000. At that time, she got the man's phone number from her friend, Michele. Their conversation started through SMS. Their conversation continued and became serious.

Someone known to him as the man invited Ida to meet at a restaurant. His brother named Yohanes came to pick up Ida on June 26, 2000. When they met, the man introduced himself as Nardinata Marshioni Suhaimi. To convince Ida, Nardinata even showed his ID card and birth certificate. "I also didn't find it strange why he introduced himself by showing his birth certificate," said Ida.

After the meeting, Nardinata showed more seriousness to Ida. Accompanied by his sibling, he approached Ida with the intention of proposing. A photo shows Nardinata putting a ring on Ida's finger. Nardinata's seriousness was then followed by a simple ring exchange ceremony at a restaurant in Surabaya. In the uploaded photo, Nardinata, Ida, and several relatives can be seen attending the event.

On July 30, Nardinata and Ida departed to Jakarta to legally register their marriage. As husband and wife, they began their honeymoon journey to several countries. Bangkok, Thailand became their first honeymoon destination. While staying at Hotel Asia, Bangkok, Nardinata confessed to Ida that he didn't need a wife. He only needed a companion who could accompany him wherever he went.

The moment was extremely shocking for Ida. Because, Nardinata admitted that she is not a man. "Then, she confessed that she is a woman!" exclaimed Ida. Ida, who was taken aback, burst into tears. A fierce argument ensued. At that moment, Nardinata even hit Ida and threatened to kill her. At the same time, Nardinata ordered Ida to take care of her parents' ashes and her three adopted children.

Because under threat, Ida finally agreed to follow Nardinata's orders and make a deal. Ida asked for a divorce because she couldn't continue her same-sex relationship. "She finally agreed to fulfill all my needs and buy me a house to live in," she said. Because she couldn't get a divorce, Ida finally had to continue living her life. Three months later, she was given a house in Pakuwon City, Taman Mutiara, Surabaya.

"Do not want to remain silent, she opened a business selling spare parts for European cars. Ida claimed to have 15 years of experience working in the car workshop. As if not given a chance to live peacefully, suddenly Ida was approached by a woman named Emiliana who claimed to be Nardinata's wife. While raging, the woman from Balikpapan, East Kalimantan, took Nardinata's car and clothes from Ida's house. Out of fear, Ida contacted Nardinata to inquire about the woman. But not long after, she realized that the woman was only acting on her husband's orders."

Since that incident, Ida often experiences violence from Nardinata, especially when they argue. At that time, Ida admitted that her husband asked her to send the spare parts of the car she sold to Jakarta. Nardinata promised to replace it with money worth Rp50 million. "But the money was never given, I suffered both material and immaterial losses," she said. Feeling disadvantaged, Ida then reported Nardinata to the East Java Regional Police in 2002 but it did not yield any results.

Nardinata actually reported that the house certificate occupied by Ida was missing. Moreover, the house in question has been sold to his nephew. Since then, Ida's report to the police has stopped. She had to wait for about five years for the Wanted Person List (DPO) for Nardinata Marshioni Suhaimi to be released. "However, it also did not yield any results," she said.

It is even more saddening when Ida's house is executed on June 8, 2023. Automatically, Ida has to leave the house. Throughout Ida's acquaintance with Nardinata, her life has been haunted by acts of violence and even death threats. She even lost her virginity using a rubber tool. "However, it has been 21 years since I have been struggling through the legal process, spending hundreds of millions of money, with more than 6 lawyers assisting, but I have not yet obtained justice," she said.

The following 'Bahasa' text has been translated to 'English' while preserving any html tags: "The story of Ida was revealed through the TikTok social media platform. Her upload then went viral among the public. Instead of being helped, Ida was called to the East Java Regional Police to ask her to delete the video in question. "Then, after a few days, the video was taken down from TikTok," she said. However, Ida only hoped that the viral video could make the perpetrator appear in the trial scheduled for October 2023."

Ida admitted that it was very difficult to obtain justice despite years of effort. She couldn't accept suffering alone while Nardinata was free to live her life. Ida suspected that Nardinata's background as a member of the Jusuf Hamka conglomerate family made it difficult to prosecute her. "However, Nardinata Marshioni Suhaimi, or Oni Yusuf, or Nera Maria Suhaimi Joseph, who clearly committed fraud, document forgery, and sexual violence, can still live freely and falsify house certificates. Is it because she is a family member of the well-known conglomerate figure, Jusuf Hamka? Is that why she is so powerful and difficult to prosecute?" wrote Ida.