Dream - As parents, we have an obligation to try to build a bond with our loved ones. Mothers usually naturally have a good bonding, due to the closeness since pregnancy. What about fathers?

Father indeed needs to make extra effort if he wants to be close to his children, especially when they are still babies. Basically, every father needs different amounts of time to be able to build a relationship with his child.

There are fathers who, when their child is born, immediately feel a strong bond with their child. There are also fathers whose sense of "ownership" towards their child has not yet emerged even when their child is born.

The relationship between father and child will grow stronger over time. This process is indeed not instant. However, there are several ways that fathers can do to be more active in this process, especially when the little one is still a baby.

For example, such as when a baby has just been breastfed, the father can hold the baby upright so that the baby does not spit up. In addition, the father can also take over the mother's duty of feeding the baby when the mother is pumping breast milk.