Dream - A Muslim woman certainly has her own dreams about her future husband. Because choosing a husband who will later become an imam must be carefully considered. The number one consideration, of course, is religion. However, there are still several other things that must be well considered. So that the built household can truly be harmonious. In Islam itself, it has shown what qualities and criteria a man should have to become a husband in Islam.

Piety is a person's obedience to Allah in their daily life. Allah SWT says in the Quran: "O you who believe, fear Allah as He should be feared and do not die except as Muslims [in submission to Him]." (Ali Imran: 102). Piety is also an important factor in marriage according to Islam. The Prophet Muhammad also advised choosing a life partner who has piety, as mentioned in the hadiths narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim.

In marriage, piety is very important because it will help the couple to remind each other in living a married life according to Islamic teachings. Piety will also be the foundation for resolving conflicts and maintaining harmony in the household. Therefore, choosing a life partner who has a high level of piety is a requirement in Islam to maintain the integrity and blessings in marriage.

By doing so, piety towards Allah and His Messenger becomes the main criterion in choosing a life partner according to Islamic teachings, as emphasized in the Quran and the guidance of the Prophet Muhammad.

Husein Muhammad Yusuf and Ali Manshur, in their books, emphasize the importance of prioritizing spirituality or faith in Allah when choosing a life partner. Here are nine ways to choose a life partner according to Islam based on the guidance from their works: 1. Ensuring that the potential partner has a strong faith in Allah. 2. Paying attention to the character and behavior of the potential partner. 3. Choosing a partner who has the enthusiasm to perform worship and maintain a relationship with Allah.

"Ensuring that prospective partners have good knowledge and understanding of the teachings of Islam. Considering the ability of prospective partners to provide sustenance and protection in accordance with the teachings of Islam. Choosing a partner who is ready to commit to marriage according to Islamic law. Ensuring good communication and mutual support to strengthen faith. Considering shared vision and mission in living a family life according to Islamic guidance."

Choosing a partner who can be a friend, protector, and helper according to the criteria in Islam. It is important to remember that in choosing a life partner, faith and piety towards Allah should be the top priority according to Islamic law.

Some of them include honesty, trustworthiness, responsibility, compassion, having empathy, as well as having faith and devotion to Allah. A good man should also have independence, useful competencies and skills for the family, and be able to be a fair and wise leader. Additionally, a good man should also have a humble attitude and be able to provide protection and security for his family.

Therefore, for a man who desires perfection in faith and life, making these qualities as a guide to life is very important.

Islam teaches that religion is the main factor in choosing a life partner. A good prospective husband is someone who has a strong belief in Islam, is devout in worship, and has noble character. After considering religion, it is also important to pay attention to physical and worldly matters. Although religion is prioritized, Islam also teaches the importance of considering physical compatibility and worldly matters in choosing a life partner.

This includes paying attention to the similarities in vision and mission, values, and compatibility in facing worldly life. The evidence from the Qur'an that supports the characteristics of a good husband can be found in Surah An-Nisa verse 19, which states that a husband is a leader for his wives, so a good husband must be able to lead his family with responsibility and love. Additionally, Surah Ar-Rum verse 21 also mentions that among the signs of Allah's greatness is creating pairs for mankind.

This shows that a good husband is someone who treats his partner with love and fairness. In addition, a good husband should also have the qualities of patience and not easily angered, in accordance with the teachings of Islam as explained in Surah Ali 'Imran verse 134. Thus, for Islam, the criteria for a good prospective husband are not only focused on religious aspects, but also take into consideration physical and worldly matters after considering religion.

This shows that Islam teaches the harmony between spiritual and worldly aspects in choosing a life partner according to religious guidance.