"Dream - The engagement proposal prayer should not be forgotten by the couple who are about to hold the engagement. Islam recognizes the proposal with the term khitbah, which means submitting a request to the family of the partner for marriage. The proposal or khitbah is an important part because it shows the sincere and serious intention of a couple, a man and a woman, to move towards marriage. Generally, the proposal is submitted by the man to the woman. Later, the woman and her family have the right to give an answer to accept or reject."

The rules and procedures of khitbah in Islamic teachings require the consent of the woman, as well as a negotiation process regarding the dowry and other requirements. The khitbah process begins with the man expressing his intention to the woman's family through a representative or by meeting directly. Then, the woman's family will consider the proposal and provide a response to the proposal.

"If the answer is positive, then both families will discuss the dowry, the requirements for marriage, and other matters that need to be agreed upon. The requirements needed in the khitbah include approval from the woman's side, agreement on the dowry, and other wedding preparations. In addition, the khitbah process also requires good communication between both parties and maintaining etiquette in communication."

The etiquette of proposals includes politeness, honor, and goodwill between both parties. Essentially, etiquette in Islam teaches to give greetings, speak politely, and maintain a good attitude and manner of speaking. In addition, prayers for proposals are also highly recommended in Islam. Before proposing to someone, it is advisable to pray so that all affairs proceed smoothly and are blessed by Allah SWT. The prayer for proposals can be a request for approval, blessings, and safety for both prospective brides and grooms.

The importance of the etiquette of proposals and prayers for proposals in Islam shows that the proposal process should be conducted with full honor, politeness, and in the willingness and pleasure of Allah SWT. By adhering to the manners and ethics of proposals according to Islamic law, the proposal process will become an act of worship blessed by Allah SWT.

The recommended prayer to be recited is like the prayer for being granted a good match, a prayer for their relationship to be blessed by Allah, a prayer for strength and patience in undergoing the wedding preparation process, and a prayer to obtain blessings in the steps leading up to the marriage. Below is the engagement prayer that should be practiced on the night before the khitbah or engagement.

Here is the translated text while preserving the HTML tags: ```html Allahumma innaka taqdiru wa la aqdiru wa la a’lamu wa anta ‘allâmul ghuyubi. Fa in ra`aita li fi (.....) khairan fi dini wa akhirati faqdirha li. Artinya: "O Allah, indeed You are the All-Powerful and I am not the one who decides. And (You) are All-Knowing of what I do not know. You are All-Knowing of the unseen. So if You see goodness between me and (..... [mentioning the name of the prospective partner]) for my religion and my Hereafter, then decree for me to be with him/her." ```

"When someone receives a marriage proposal, there are several prayers that should be recited and attitudes that should be displayed according to Islamic teachings. First, when receiving a khitbah or proposal, there is a prayer that should be read, which is a prayer for Allah to grant blessings, goodness, and ease in taking the steps towards marriage. In addition, the attitude that should be shown is one of humility, gratitude, and seeking guidance from Allah."

"Meanwhile, when receiving a proposal, the prayer that should be recited is a prayer asking Allah to grant blessings in the upcoming marriage and to make that relationship the best in this world and the hereafter. The attitude that should be shown is one of gratitude, happiness, and sincerity. By carrying out the process of receiving a proposal with the appropriate prayer and attitude in accordance with Islamic teachings, it is hoped that Allah will grant blessings and happiness in the steps towards marriage."