So Sad! Girl Asks to Be Proposed to After Dating for 9 Years, But Her Boyfriend Ends Up Marrying Another Woman

"Very Sad! Girl Asks to Be Proposed After Dating for 9 Years, But Her Boyfriend Ends Up Marrying Another Woman"

"Dream - There have been many cases of long-term dating, with promises to be halal but ending up in disappointment. Besides the promises that were made not being fulfilled, they end up marrying someone else. Such is the story of a girl who failed to walk down the aisle because her boyfriend chose another woman."

The suffocating story is shared in a screenshot of a WhatsApp conversation posted by Instagram @folkshitt. The girl's story began when she started dating her boyfriend back in 2015.

So Sad! Girl Asks to Be Proposed to After Dating for 9 Years, But Her Boyfriend Ends Up Marrying Another Woman

The translation of "Dijanjikan Lamaran dan Menikah" to English is "Promised Engagement and Marriage."

"Five years passed, and in 2020, suddenly her boyfriend promised to propose. This was because the girl asked to be proposed to that year as well. "If I ask to be proposed to this year, can it happen?" asked the girl hopefully and anxiously. "It can, insyaAllah. You often come to my house too, right? The more my mom knows you, the better, right?" replied the boy."

"However, the girl is not very sure about her boyfriend's willingness to propose because there is still the word 'insyaAllah'. To calm the girl's heart, her boyfriend added the words 'I want to and I can'."

The translation of "Belum Juga Dilamar Hingga 2021" to English is "Not Yet Engaged Until 2021."

"Unfortunately, by the beginning of 2021, her boyfriend still hadn't proposed to her. In fact, she had already announced to her family that she was engaged. Nevertheless, she remained patient. She only asked her boyfriend to fulfill his promise to propose to her as soon as possible. "I've already declared that I want you to propose to me. Watch out if you go back on your promise. If not, I'll run away," the girl said jokingly."

"However, throughout the year 2021, her boyfriend tried to keep postponing. Various excuses were made by her boyfriend to delay the proposal he had promised. This made the girl disappointed and began to get annoyed with her boyfriend. She even accused her boyfriend of not being serious about taking the step towards marriage."

"I asked you when you are serious with me? If this year is possible, prove it to me what I am doing with someone else," she said. The girl even threatened her boyfriend that she would marry another man if there was no certainty."

"He admitted to being tired of the same old relationship, with no certainty of moving to a more serious level. "Your serious intentions towards me are non-existent. I'm tired of us staying the same. People reflect on themselves. You really never feel wrong for keeping me hanging like this," said the girl."

"Meanwhile, her boyfriend tried to defend himself while slipping in other promises that were actually already stale for the girl. "Look, I don't want to make it sound grand, I might be able to propose to you at the end of this year (2021), and marry you next year (2022). I'm preparing all of that. I'm sure about you. I love you. You can discuss it first with your mom (the girl's mother)," explained the boyfriend at length."

A few days later, the girl reported that a man proposed to her. However, she refused because she didn't have the heart to hurt her boyfriend. The problem is, her boyfriend couldn't accept it and tried to hurt himself.

"I want to accept someone's proposal," said the girl, informing her boyfriend. "Please don't, I'm serious about you. I beg you to pray istikharah. I promise I won't disturb your istikharah," the boy pleaded earnestly.

The translation of "Umbar Janji Lagi" to English is "Break the Promise Again".

"Once again, the guy is making promises. This time he wants his relationship with the girl to be realized in the form of an engagement first. "Do you want to get engaged? Get married next year? Engagement, let the time from the proposal to the wedding be just one month. Engaged first. What’s your ring size?" said the guy."

"However, the girl did not want to get engaged. She wanted a proposal and then to get married because she did not want to prolong the time like before. "Engagement is not allowed in Islam. If you can't, then don't. There is no engagement," the girl replied. Time passed as usual. Her boyfriend still had not proposed to her. In fact, he had promised several times that they would get married next year."

"Until finally entering the year 2022, her boyfriend promised again about marriage as before. This time he promised to get married in 2023, because in 2022 his cousin was getting married and his family was focused on that event."

The translation of "Malas Membahas Lamaran dan Pernikahan" to English is "Lazy to Discuss Proposals and Weddings".

"Seeing her boyfriend who always delays with various excuses, the girl has become tired of discussing proposals and marriage. The girl no longer cares if she and her boyfriend do not end up getting married. The girl even feels happy not marrying a man who likes to lie and makes empty promises."

"It can be seen when the girl received news from her boyfriend that he will propose to another woman in 2024."

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"I want to propose. Next week. Introduced to my uncle. Sorry, bye. I’ll block you. Thank you, hope you follow soon.. amen," said the guy.

"It's okay. I already know your quality now if that's really the case. Up to you," replied the girl.

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