Not only did she propose many conditions, the widow also mentioned the reason why she had to do it. Apparently, the widow had sworn off marrying a man whom she considered to be someone who had no self-awareness.

How not? Any movable or immovable property owned before marriage, excluding joint property. The widow wants any property or assets purchased with personal money after marriage to also not be joint property. All of that will be the personal property of each individual. If there are debts, then the husband's debts are not the responsibility of the wife, and vice versa.

"He also allows his husband to 'eat out'. The important thing is not to cheat or lie. If it is discovered that he lied or cheated and eventually divorced, then the husband's assets fall into the wife's hands. 'Please enjoy the lamb satay, without having to raise the goat. This is my insecurity because my husband is a single parent,' she said."

"Solving household problems without interference from others, be it parents or staff members (siblings, in-laws, or anyone who could potentially be a third party)," he continued."

The woman requires that her potential husband does not ask about the wife's salary or expenses and vice versa, except for living expenses. In her previous marriage, she felt deceived because her ex-husband was not responsible with finances.

At the end of the post, the widow revealed the reason why she had to bother to submit pre-marriage requirements. "I do it because of experience and what I have personally experienced. Not because of pretending to have a position and personal interests. Because I am looking for a husband for a lifelong companion, not to make someone jealous or even die...," she concluded.