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"Confession of a Woman Who Broke Up After 9 Years of Dating, Embarrassed by Family Because the Relationship Ended in Vain"

- The love journey of a woman from Sulawesi is so touching and full of twists and turns. Why? She broke up from a relationship that had been going on for nine long years.

Women's Confession After Breaking Up After 9 Years of Dating, Ashamed of Family Because the Relationship Ended in Vain

The woman who is affectionately called Mercy broke up at the age of 30. She felt sad because at that age, it tends to be difficult for a woman to find a partner. Through her TikTok account @mercy0711_, Mercy then tells the story of her sad love journey and how she moved on to continue her life. "Breaking up from a 9-year relationship, how did she move on?" said Mercy, starting her failed love story.

Move to a More Serious Level

Mercy feels sad and disappointed because she broke up at the age of 30. Especially since she already had plans for a more serious future. Initially, Mercy wanted to maintain her relationship that had been going on for 9 years. Moreover, their parents already knew each other, and news of their seriousness had spread among family and friends.

"Relationship on the Edge of a Horn"

In the midst of wedding plans, Mercy's love relationship is on the rocks because of her partner's frequent infidelity. At that time, Mercy was already thinking about what would happen if she broke up with her partner while she was already 30 years old.

Women's Confession After Breaking Up After 9 Years of Dating, Ashamed of Family Because the Relationship Ended in Vain

"Is there still anyone who wants to be with an old girl like me? I'm already in my 30s, and how can I get close to other guys because until now, he's the only one I've been with," she thought at that time. Even though all this time Mercy has closed her heart to all the guys who tried to get close to her. She even rejected mature guys who proposed to her."

"Boyfriend Often Caught Cheating"

Mercy wants to break up because she can no longer tolerate her lover's behavior that always hurts her. She has forgiven her lover multiple times for being caught cheating and has given him chances in the hope that he realizes and changes.

"In their final argument, Mercy and her lover's relationship could no longer be sustained. 'He left and cut off communication. I did my best, but he chose a life that doesn't align with mine,' she reminisced."

Women's Confession After Breaking Up After 9 Years of Dating, Ashamed of Family Because the Relationship Ended in Vain

"Breakup, Ashamed of Family"

After breaking up from a very long love relationship, Mercy tried to move on with her own life. Initially, Mercy was unable to move on because her life was so shattered. Mercy always defended that love relationship in front of her family. In the end, everything fell apart in a heartbreaking condition. Mercy felt ashamed of her family because the choice she defended ended up in vain.

"In every prostration, I can only cry without being able to ask for anything anymore. Well.. I'm at the point of surrender," he said. For months, Mercy went through that painful phase. With the help of his friends, Mercy finally managed to overcome his sadness."

Women's Confession After Breaking Up After 9 Years of Dating, Ashamed of Family Because the Relationship Ended in Vain

"Rising from the Abyss"

"He tries to get out of the slump and rediscover the world. He tries to relive his teenage years at the age of 30. Mercy continues his life and starts opening his heart again to guys who try to approach him."

Currently, Mercy is in a relationship again with a man who can help her overcome her love trauma. "He tries to make me happy in his own way. I don't know what our story will be like in the future. But right now, I am happy with him," she concluded. Mercy also advised women who are in a similar situation as her that "a relationship that has been going on for years and even involves parents does not guarantee that it will always stay together."

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