Many Onad Don't Feel the Need to Take Their Children to School, But in Fact, Children Need Bonding with Their Father to Feel Confident

Ramai Onad Tak Merasa Harus Anter ke Anak Sekolah, Faktanya Anak Butuh Bonding dengan Ayah Biar Pede

Many Onad do not feel the need to accompany their children to school, but the fact is that children need bonding with their father to feel confident.

Many Onad Don't Feel the Need to Take Their Children to School, But in Fact, Children Need Bonding with Their Father to Feel Confident

Dream - Parenting culture in Indonesia still emphasizes the role of mothers. Meanwhile, fathers in households are considered to have a primary role in only providing for the family. In terms of child-rearing, many consider it to be the mother's main responsibility.

The following is the translation of the given 'Bahasa' text to 'English' while preserving any html tags: "Example that is currently being talked about, such as DJ Onadio Leonardo's statement on Deddy Corbuzier's Youtube channel, who thinks that he doesn't feel the need to pick up his child from school. According to him, it is the wife's duty."

"He feels like he's already looking for money, 'it's not my job to take care of it, you should do it,' said Onad Beby Prisillia's wife. 'Isn't taking care of children a mother's duty?' said Onad again."

The question from Onad was immediately criticized by Vidi, Deddy Corbuzier, and his wife who were present at the podcast. Apparently, Onad has his own reasons for not wanting to take his child to school in the morning. "Here's the thing, let's say we have work until 2 in the morning, shooting a film from morning till night, and then the next morning Beby isn't doing anything, should I have to take the child, what is their task? It's tiring, coming home at 2 in the morning and then waking up at 7 again?" Onad asked.

"Moment Bonding with Children"

The busyness of my father's work often makes the relationship between the child and his father not very close. Actually, as parents, we always need to make an effort and steal time in the midst of busyness to have quality time with our children.

"If not pursued, the relationship between father and child will not be formed and tends to be 'cold' and rigid. In fact, children need good examples from both their father and mother in shaping their personality and mentality. There are many things that children learn from their fathers as provisions for adult life, especially for boys."

Anastasia Satriyo, M.Psi., a family psychologist highlights the important role of fathers in the mental and psychological development of children. A father who is close to their child will provide such great emotional support.

One way is by taking them to school amidst the busyness. Maybe dad can't do it every day, but try to do it occasionally or maybe pick them up from school.

"Father who strives to provide a sense of security helps a boy feel more confident and protected. This is important for the development of self-confidence and mental health of the child," expressed Anas. According to Anas, a father is the first mirror for a boy on how to be a human being. "About wisdom, about strength, about living life with love and warmth that will be carried by the child throughout his life," his message to fathers, quoted from Instagram @anassatriyo."

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