"Dream - Most people consider the closeness between a mother and child to be natural. The mother has been pregnant for 9 months, then breastfeeds and takes care of the child, and the relationship will 'automatically' be very close. In fact, it is not always the case, as there are many mothers who do not have a strong bond or bonding with their children."

There are many factors that trigger this, both internal and external. It is important to remember that the relationship between mother and child greatly determines a person's mental health in the future. Dr. Zulvia Oktanida Syarif, a mental health specialist, explains that the relationship between mother and child will shape the child's relationship patterns with many people later on.

"The meaning starts from the child's birth, the process of attachment, bonding, patterns of interaction, communication between mother and child, and also the child's attachment to the mother greatly influences the child's future relationship when they grow up," said psychiatrist, Dr. Vivi, who is familiarly called.

When the relationship with his mother is not close, it makes him feel insecure, always feeling inadequate, the bond formed becomes an insecure attachment. This then develops into adulthood.