"Dream - Shaping a child's mindset to be resilient in difficult times, able to find solutions when faced with problems or make significant decisions in life, certainly cannot be accomplished in a short time. It must start early."

"One way is to train children to face situations that do not always align with their desires. Dr. Elvine Gunawan, a mental health specialist, reminds us that children need to be trained to experience disappointment in order to build a stronger mentality."

"Often as parents, we feel reluctant when our child whines for something. When we can fulfill the child's request, we tend to do it immediately. Even if we can't, we sometimes go to great lengths to ensure the child can have their joy."

"It turns out that this is not correct. If a child wants something, according to Dr. Elvine, let them wait and try to get it on their own. This can encourage the child to think more creatively and strive to the fullest to achieve what they desire."

"Teach him to be disappointed and to find solutions. Why? Because he must grow and survive in life," said Dr. Elvine."

"On one hand, it can indeed make children happy, but in the future, the child may become unaccustomed to facing problems, feeling disappointed, seeking solutions, and working hard to achieve them."