One of the phenomena that is currently in the spotlight is the fatherless condition. Children actually have fathers and have lost their figures.
Sure! Here is the translated text with the HTML tags preserved: "Dream - Fathers in some families can sometimes become figures that feel so foreign to their children. This may be due to the busyness of work or indeed a lack of effort from the father to be close to his child. Any relationship must always be nurtured, including between parents and children. Busy fathers who sometimes have to be separated by distance must indeed make extra efforts to be close to their children. We should not let children feel they have a father, but only in physical presence."
"To be a good father, you don't have to be perfect. Because what matters is that a father can be present [emotionally close], by making an effort to listen, and showing attention and support for the children. It's as simple as inviting them to play, telling stories, spending quality time, or providing motivation," said Irma Gustiana, a family psychologist.
"His physical presence is around the child but his soul is not connected? The feeling of being 'detached' from this connection makes the child experience fatherlessness," said Irma. There are many factors that make someone feel fatherless. One of them is when a father only feels the need to meet material needs, while the child also needs involvement in parenting for their mental and psychological health."
"A child who is fatherless can feel extremely disappointed with their father. But in truth, they also have a greater disappointment towards themselves. Disappointed and wondering to themselves 'why can't I make my father love me', what makes my father so distant from me," revealed Irma."
The Effects of Being Fatherless on Girls and Boys.
"Children who are fatherless can also experience feelings of low self-esteem. They may struggle to make decisions, have low motivation, be vulnerable to mental health issues, and potentially have thoughts of ending their lives. According to Irma, fatherless boys are more likely to visibly express their disappointment "Through destructive, damaging actions, aggression, criminal behavior, or substance abuse," she stated."
"Meanwhile, fatherless daughters tend to suppress and hold back their disappointment towards their fathers. In addition to potentially becoming depressed, engaging in casual relationships can be one way to release their heartache due to the loss of a father figure. Source: IG @ayankirma"
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