These are the Criteria for Inara Rusli's Ideal Husband, Are You Worthy to Replace Virgoun?

Dream - Inara Rusli is currently focused on dealing with her divorce from Last Child's vocalist, Virgoun. However, that doesn't mean that the mother of three doesn't have the desire to build a new family with her ideal partner.

She is open to the presence of other men, and it turns out that Inara has certain criteria for her future partner who she hopes will become her spiritual leader.

"I want a partner who fears Allah," said Inara Rusli in South Jakarta, Monday, June 12, 2023.

In addition to the above criteria, one requirement that must be fulfilled by a potential husband is accepting her three children and giving them sincere love.

"Not only love me, but also love the children," she added.

Already Have Criteria but....

One important requirement that her future life partner must have is the ability to be a good leader for the family and lead them towards a better future.

"Leadership is not only about worldly matters, but also the afterlife, and the ability to remind each other," she said.

Although she has quite a few criteria, Inara emphasized that she has not yet found a suitable candidate. The reason is that she is currently prioritizing work and taking care of her three children.

"I'm just focused on work," she added.

Initially Thought Virgoun was the Ideal Person

Previously, Inara Rusli also revealed the reasons for accepting Virgoun as her husband. The mother of three, whose marriage is on the verge of divorce, chose Virgoun as her life partner because he possessed the qualities of an ideal man that she desired. 

"He used to be good. Until a few years into our marriage, he was good. I even made a statement that he had all the qualities of an ideal man," said Inara Rusli as quoted by Dream from YouTube CURHAT Bang Denny.

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Inara also revealed that her decision to marry Virgoun was not based on popularity or wealth that the singer of the song Surat Cinta Untuk Starla possessed at that time.

Moreover, she continued, they both had a certain level of popularity due to their careers as entertainers.  

"I am surrounded by important people. Why did I choose him? Because of his advantages," she added.

Expectations Do Not Match Reality

However, the image of the ideal man changed after Virgoun's character slowly began to change. Inara revealed that her husband had betrayed her multiple times and had affairs with other women.

This reality eventually made Inara disappointed and caused her psychological distress. 

"My psyche often suffered, he directly admitted that there were other women," said Inara.

The 30-year-old woman also admitted that the desire to separate actually came from her. However, at that time, Virgoun rejected it and promised to improve himself. 

"But it happened again. We both are victims of a broken home, we know how painful it is. I tried to fix it but it's difficult," she added.

Approached by 300 Men Since the Divorce News

Amidst her divorce process with Virgoun, Inara Rusli was also surprised to hear about hundreds of men who have tried to approach her. According to Ustaz Derry Sulaiman, around 300 men have expressed their desire to get to know her.

"Damn, I asked if it was a job application or what," said Inara Rusli in Jakarta, Tuesday, May 30, 2023.

Although many men want to get close to her, the mother of three children ensures that she will not get married anytime soon. Besides realizing that she is still in the process of separating from Virgoun, Inara's focus is on work and raising her children.

"The divorce is not yet finalized, I'm more focused on my work, more focused on empowering myself, so that I have something to keep me busy," she said.

When it comes to finding a soulmate, Inara is open-hearted. She leaves it entirely to Ustaz Derry Sulaiman, who has been helping her until now.

"Ustaz Derry is the one who arranges everything when it comes to men approaching me," she added.