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"Curhat Sedih Istri Ditelantarkan Abdi Negara: Suami Gaya Hedon, Tak Mau Tahu Urusan Anak" translates to English as: "Wife's Sad Confession of Neglect by State Servant: Husband Living a Hedonistic Lifestyle, Unconcerned about Children's Matters."

Dream - Every couple surely desires their marriage to last until death do them apart. But unfortunately, in every household, there are always tests and challenges.

Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun
Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun

"If you can be patient and trust in God during trials, the household will be saved. If emotions and selfishness are prioritized, the marriage will undoubtedly be destroyed."

That is what a woman experienced when she vented about her married life with a civil servant. The marriage that had been built ended in ruins due to her husband's hedonistic attitude. Through a TikTok post, the woman said that her husband often lived a luxurious lifestyle. However, the husband never bought diapers for their child even though he had been asked to do so.

"Suami Abdi Negara Gaya Hidup Hedon Tapi..." translates to "My Husband, the State Servant, Has a Hedonistic Lifestyle But..."

In the video, she showed photos of her wedding with her husband, which ended in divorce. It can be seen in the wedding photos that her husband is wearing a military uniform.

               
Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun
Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun

"He then showed evidence of WhatsApp conversations with her husband. The woman became increasingly disappointed because when asked to buy diapers, her husband never responded."

"From the time of birth until now, my child, who is 15 months old, has never experienced the love of a biological father," said the woman.

Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun

"Not to mention buying diapers, never even visited the child."

Even though she keeps asking to buy diapers for her child, her husband is indifferent. Not to mention buying diapers, he sometimes feels lazy to respond to his wife's requests. Even more painful, her husband never visits his own child.

               

"Meanwhile, her husband goes to work using a luxurious car, eating delicious food. Whereas the wife struggles just to have a meal."

Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun
Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun

In another post, the woman said that her husband had divorced her. She admitted that her family life was ruined because of her in-laws' behavior.

"I have been divorced by my husband. Our marriage was destroyed by my in-laws and evil siblings-in-law," she said. She said that her in-laws and siblings-in-law always feel resentful when her husband takes her out to buy household needs."

Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun
Curhat Sedih Istri Seorang Abdi Negara: Suami Bergaya Hidup Mewah Tapi Diminta Beli Pampers Anak Sulitnya Minta Ampun

"Not only that, the destruction of their marriage was also caused by her husband's infidelity. "My photos were used as gossip material by my mother-in-law, father-in-law, and sister-in-law," she confessed."

"However, she and her husband already have their own house that they built together. It's just because of its location facing her in-laws' house, they always interfere in their household affairs. Nevertheless, she tries to endure and must remain strong for the sake of herself and her child."

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