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Confide Wife Decades of Marriage because Matched until Having Seven Grandchildren, But Until Now Does Not Love Her Husband.

Dream - Marriage based on arranged marriage may be an unpleasant experience for some women. The absence of love growing in their hearts makes them feel uncomfortable when they get married. However, there are also women who accept it willingly when they are matched with a man who is not their choice.

There are also some women who secretly refuse, even though they appear to accept the arranged marriage on the surface. Like the story of a middle-aged woman who confides about being married without love to Mamah Dedeh, as follows.

Wife's Confession After Decades of Marriage Due to Arranged Marriage and Having Seven Grandchildren, But Still Doesn't Love Her Husband
Wife's Confession After Decades of Marriage Due to Arranged Marriage and Having Seven Grandchildren, But Still Doesn't Love Her Husband

The woman admitted that when she got married, she was arranged to marry by her parents. She was forced to accept the arranged marriage.

Because when she refused the arranged marriage, the woman's mother immediately fell ill and was hospitalized.

Wife's Confession After Decades of Marriage Due to Arranged Marriage and Having Seven Grandchildren, But Still Doesn't Love Her Husband

Finally, the woman gave in and considered her marriage as a religious duty to please her parents. However, her subsequent confession truly shocked Mamah Dedeh and the audience present.

How not? They have been married for decades and even have seven grandchildren, but until now the woman still does not love her husband.

Wife's Confession After Decades of Marriage Due to Arranged Marriage and Having Seven Grandchildren, But Still Doesn't Love Her Husband

"Respons Keras Mamah Dede" translates to "Strong Response from Mom Dede"

Meaning that woman serves half-heartedly to her rightful husband who has been giving her children and sustenance all this time. Upon hearing that confession, Mamah Dedeh immediately called that woman an ungrateful human being.

Ingratitude for Blessings

The preacher, who is 72 years old, then explained that every parent definitely wants their child to be happy. "I believe parents matchmake by saying 'this is the best man to make you happy'. But deep down, you don't accept being matched, that's why you rebel. It means you are ungrateful," said Mamah Dedeh loudly.

Wife's Confession After Decades of Marriage Due to Arranged Marriage and Having Seven Grandchildren, But Still Doesn't Love Her Husband

According to Mamah Dedeh, if other husbands know that they have a wife like that woman, they will definitely feel hurt and immediately run to find another woman.

Therefore, Mamah Dedeh asked the woman to seek forgiveness and apologize to her husband for not loving him wholeheartedly all this time. Even though throughout their marriage, the husband has been patient and sincerely fulfilling all the rights of his wife.

Wife's Confession After Decades of Marriage Due to Arranged Marriage and Having Seven Grandchildren, But Still Doesn't Love Her Husband

Through the Mamah Dedeh show, the woman finally apologized to her husband. While crying, the woman admitted that she was guilty for not wholeheartedly serving her husband all this time.

"Astagfirullahal 'adzim, Sir. Yes, indeed I have no feelings, but I always lose to your patience."
"Lost, so I can maintain this long-lasting marriage. I'm sorry, Mom, Sir. Perhaps all this time Mom has been serving Dad half-heartedly,"

The woman said while shedding tears.

Next, Mamah Dedeh advised the woman to change her wrong attitude. Because all this time she has been refusing Allah's decree to be married to the man who is now her husband.

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