Dream - Marriage is a happy day for the bride and her family. However, sometimes there are sad moments that make tears uncontrollable on that happy day.
For example, it can be seen in the video uploaded by the TikTok account @hardie1986 below. In the video, the atmosphere before the wedding ceremony is shown. However, the atmosphere changes to a gloomy one.
The video shows a woman wearing a pink hijab sitting between the bride, who is wearing a white dress, on the left, and the groom on the right.
The woman shook hands with a man in front of her. She was seen crying while speaking. It is unclear what the woman said, as her voice could not be heard.
What is clear is the gloomy expression on her face. Her forehead wrinkled. Her shoulders shook due to sobbing. Her left hand, holding a tissue, sometimes wiped the mucus coming out of her nose from crying.
The woman's tears did not stop until she kissed the hand of the man she shook hands with. She even seemed unable to lift her head.
Meanwhile, the bride sitting next to her just sat silently.
This heartbreaking video went viral on social media. The deep sadness in the woman's tears has sparked various responses from netizens in the comment section.
Many of them sympathized with her sadness and showed support to the woman.
However, there is a debate among netizens. Many internet users perceive that the video depicts the atmosphere of a second marriage.
They believe that the woman who is crying is the first wife who is giving permission to her husband to remarry.
"No woman wants to be in a polygamous marriage... it's better to be a widow than to have a broken heart," wrote the account @NOVIA.
"If I were her, I wouldn't agree to polygamy, I'd rather be a widow," wrote the account @Madewi.
"It's so painful," wrote the account @yasmin.
"You can clearly see the suffering in her soul, be strong," wrote the account @N Hayati160.
"It's so heartbreaking to watch," wrote the account @Lukito Purnamawati.
However, the uploader of the video did not explicitly mention that the crying woman is the first wife who gave permission to her husband to remarry.
The video uploader also responded to comments from netizens asking if the video is about polygamy.
"Actually, I didn't explain the chronology there, I just told the story, but many people consider it a story of polygamy," replied the video uploader.
A similar video was also uploaded by the TikTok account Dedy Haryanto. In the comments section, some netizens mentioned that the crying woman is not giving permission to her husband to remarry.
Some netizens said that the crying woman is the bride's older sister who is being 'overtaken' by her younger sister getting married.
"The younger sister got married before her older sister," wrote the account Dheepjenk Ciprut.
"Her younger sister overtook her," wrote the account Titin Helnanda.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.