Does the Little One Repeat the Same Mistake Over and Over Again? This is What Psychologists Say

"The Little One Repeating the Same Mistake Over and Over Again? This is What the Psychologist Says"

Does the Little One Repeat the Same Mistake Over and Over Again? This is What Psychologists Say

Dream - Facing children, especially toddlers and elementary school (SD) age, who often make mistakes, often leaves parents confused.

Especially if the mistakes he made are the same and repeated. In such situations, many parents are provoked emotionally.

When a child repeatedly makes the same mistake, finally a stern reprimand emerges. It can be in the form of yelling, or other punishments that are expected to make the child learn their lesson.

According to Audrey Susanto, M.Psi., a family psychologist, when a child repeatedly makes the same mistake, it does not mean that they do not understand the consequences and reprimands given. It could be that at that time, the child needs parents who are focused on them.

"In positive discipline, this can fall into attention-seeking behavior. Often, children feel unimportant when parents focus their attention on other things."
The translation of the Bahasa text "kata Audrey" to English while preserving any HTML tags is: "word Audrey".

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The error made by a child makes parents reprimand, approach, and focus more on them. This is what then becomes the child's 'weapon' to attract the attention of their mother and father. Facing this situation, according to Audrey, it is important for parents to be more sensitive to the psychological needs of the child. Avoid responding excessively such as scolding or reprimanding them with loud yelling.

"This excessive response makes the child feel more noticed, so they will keep repeating it," Audrey said."

When a child makes the same mistake, it could be a sign that they actually need quality time with their parents. It doesn't have to be long, what's important is that father and mother focus their attention on playing and paying attention to them.

"Provide time to play together without any interruptions for at least 15 minutes every day. We do this to help the child feel important and valuable. If the child has developed this feeling, they will seek less attention when we have to do other things."
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If you find a situation where a child always repeats the same mistakes, such as spilling water, throwing toys, tearing books, or others, try to provide more time to play with them. Actually, it is a signal that the child wants more attention from his/her parents. Dream.co.id is available on the WhatsApp Channel, follow to know the latest information at this link: https:\/\/bit.ly\/DreamcoidWAChannel

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"The Little One Repeating the Same Mistake Over and Over Again? This is What the Psychologist Says"

"In positive discipline, this can fall into attention-seeking behavior. Often, children feel unimportant when parents focus their attention on other things."The translation of the Bahasa text "kata Audrey" to English while preserving any HTML tags is: "word Audrey".

"Provide time to play together without any interruptions for at least 15 minutes every day. We do this to help the child feel important and valuable. If the child has developed this feeling, they will seek less attention when we have to do other things.""message Audrey"

"In positive discipline, this can fall into attention-seeking behavior. Often, children feel unimportant when parents focus their attention on other things."
The translation of the Bahasa text "kata Audrey" to English while preserving any HTML tags is: "word Audrey".

"Provide time to play together without any interruptions for at least 15 minutes every day. We do this to help the child feel important and valuable. If the child has developed this feeling, they will seek less attention when we have to do other things."
"message Audrey"