Often Prohibiting Your Child from Crying, It Turns Out This is the Bad Effect

Sure! Here’s the translation of the provided text while preserving the HTML tags: "Dream - Children, when faced with something difficult or receiving reprimands and prohibitions, tend to cry. Facing and hearing a child cry is certainly not a comfortable thing for parents. Often, fathers or mothers forbid their child from crying or force them to stop crying immediately. This is actually not healthy for the child's mental state. It can even store a 'bomb' for later."

Avoid the sentence “Don’t cry, you’re so whiny” or “Is that all it takes to make you cry.” Such expressions can indicate to a child that their parents do not want to understand what the child is feeling and do not take their feelings seriously.

Often Prohibiting Your Child from Crying, It Turns Out This is the Bad Effect

Sure! Here’s the translated text while preserving the HTML tags: "Might seem like a small issue for adults, but for children, it can leave a significant impact. If it continues to happen, the mental health of the child is at stake. The following negative effects may arise, as quoted from KlikDokter.com. Feeling Demeaned When parents often scold their child for crying, the child will feel that their parents are demeaning their feelings and do not consider feelings of sadness or anger to be important. This can trigger emotional problems in the future."

"2. Children Become Less Confident"

"When parents forbid their children from crying, the child will feel that their feelings or emotions are unimportant. As a result, their self-confidence will be hindered from developing. This will certainly have a negative impact, especially when they are of school age later."

"3. Tends to Be Afraid to Ask for Help"

"The child who is often yelled at or forced to be silent while crying will tend to be afraid to ask for help from others, including their parents. Certainly, this will be detrimental to themselves when they grow up."

"4. Often Blaming Oneself"

"Suppressing emotions such as sadness or anger can potentially lead a child to often blame themselves. They may feel that the sadness they are experiencing is excessive and a result of their own actions."

"5. Socializing Issues"

"If a child has grown into a person who does not understand the feelings of others, in the end, they will find it difficult to socialize with their peers when they are in school and later at work."

Here is the translated text with HTML tags preserved: "Then, what should you do when you see or face a child crying? The best way is to show empathy for the child's feelings. Show that the parents can understand what the child is feeling, or at least see that they are sad or angry. For example, when the child cries because they didn't get a toy, you could say, "Big brother/little brother is crying because Mama didn't buy a toy earlier, right?" Providing understanding cannot be done just once or twice. It may take repeated efforts for the child to understand. This is the parents' task to continuously find ways to explain or even better understand the child's emotions. Read more here."

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