Pre-Teen Children Are Very Difficult to Photograph, Here’s the Reason

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"The Pre-Teen Child is Very Difficult to Photograph, It Turns Out This is the Reason"

Pre-Teen Children Are Very Difficult to Photograph, Here’s the Reason

"Dream - Family vacations or moments of gathering and eating together will certainly feel incomplete without photos."

The translated text is: "In the future, the photo can become a memento that can be shared and uploaded on various social media or other applications."

For fathers and mothers who already have pre-teen children, starting from the age of 10, inviting them to take photos can sometimes be very difficult. They always refuse to take pictures together with the immediate family or extended family. Children at this age also get very annoyed if photographed or recorded without permission.

"Often experience it? According to Anas Satriyo, a family psychologist, this happens for certain reasons that are closely related to the psychological development of children."

"In pre-adolescence, there is an increase in self-awareness, especially in the physical aspect. Pre-adolescent children begin to pay more attention to how they are seen by others, which can make them feel uncomfortable when being photographed, especially if they are not sure that the photo will reflect themselves in the way they want," said Anas."

"It also explains that in pre-adolescent and adolescent ages, the part of the brain responsible for regulating emotions and controlling impulses is not yet fully developed."

The condition triggers feelings of uncertainty or anxiety about how they are perceived by others, which may make them reluctant to be photographed. Not to mention if teenagers know that their photos will be uploaded to social media where many people can see them. Not only that, but they can also be commented on, which might lead to negative comments.

"Teenagers may feel that they cannot compete with the beauty or cool standards they see on social media and by their peers, which can lead to feelings of insecurity," said Anas."

"Undoubtedly, the possibility that the photo will be uploaded on social media by the parents or other applications that can be seen by many people makes the child feel very uncomfortable. If the child does not like it, it is better not to force it and open a discussion to find out the reasons."

"Try to put yourself in the child's position and try to empathize. "It's important to remember that every teenager is unique and their reasons may vary. The best approach is to communicate openly and with empathy to understand their individual perspectives," message from Anas Source: IG @anassatriyo."

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