Officially Divorced, Shandy Aulia Finally Reveals the Real Reason for Separating from David Herbowo

Dream - Shandy Aulia finally opens up about her marriage with David Herbowo, which ended in divorce.

According to her, suing for divorce from her husband until it became official was not an easy decision.

"It's impossible to have problems for 1-2 months and then already be divorced, like that. There must be accumulation, a long process that definitely exceeds 1-2 years," said Shandy Aulia on the YouTube channel Gue Sehat.

Regarding the reasons for divorcing David Herbowo, Shandy denies the presence of a third party, financial problems, or domestic violence in their marriage.

"Outside of these 3 things (domestic violence, infidelity, financial), that's what's more difficult," she revealed.

The star of the movie Eiffel I'm in Love felt that their perspectives and ways of resolving issues with David were different. So the best way was to get a divorce.

"It's not a decision that seems blatantly evil, but we have to deal with it. In a marriage, what we face is not just what goes viral," she said.

Shandy Aulia also admitted that her separation from David was not done in a good way. Instead, it was done peacefully to avoid future disputes.

"I don't agree with separating amicably. If it's amicable, it's impossible to separate. But to separate peacefully. No more blaming each other," said Shandy Aulia.

Legal Counsel Candidly Discusses the Causes of Shandy Aulia and David Herbowo's Marriage Cracks

Dream - Shandy Aulia filed for divorce from David Herbowo after nearly 12 years of marriage. She registered her divorce at the South Jakarta District Court on April 11, 2023.

Regarding the causes of the couple's marriage cracks, Shandy Aulia's legal counsel, Sandy Arifin, stated that there were no significant problems between them.

"There are no significant problems. Whatever the problems are, we won't disclose them because it's a family matter," said Sandy Arifin in South Jakarta on Monday, April 17, 2023.

According to Sandy, his client agreed to separate amicably. They no longer live together.

"They definitely no longer live together. But the communication remains good, especially since they both decided to raise their child together," he said.

In this divorce lawsuit, Shandy does not concern herself with shared assets. She only wants to separate from David Herbowo. As for child custody, Shandy wants joint custody.

"It's purely just divorce. There's no issue of shared assets and custody because the child is taken care of alternately. They have arranged it so there's no fighting, when they're with their father, when they're with their mother," said Sandy Arifin.

Married for 12 Years, Shandy Aulia Files for Divorce from Husband, Is This the Cause?

Dream - Surprising news comes from Shandy Aulia. She filed for divorce from her husband, David Herbowo, at the South Jakarta District Court on April 11, 2023.

"Based on the data in the case information system of the South Jakarta District Court, there is a case registered under the name of the plaintiff Nyimas Shandy Aulia. And the defendant is David Herbowo. The lawsuit is a divorce lawsuit," said Djuyamto, the spokesperson for the South Jakarta District Court, at his office on Friday, April 14, 2023.

The first hearing for Shandy and David will be held on May 3, 2023, with mediation as the agenda to bring both parties together.

"(The hearing's agenda) depends on whether all parties are present at the first hearing, such as the plaintiff and the defendant. If they're present, they will be required to undergo mediation first," he added.

It is known that Shandy and David's marriage was rumored to be in trouble a few years ago, but they denied it.

However, in 2023, Shandy Aulia decided to divorce after 12 years of marriage and they have a daughter from their marriage.