Dream - Hari Raya Idul Fitri is a moment for Muslims to ask for forgiveness from each other. Indonesian society usually visits relatives' houses, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and other acquaintances. It is not uncommon for new meetings to occur during this Eid moment after a long time of knowing each other. Eid is a special time for Muslims to meet, improve, and strengthen their relationships. However, one thing that friends of Dream should pay attention to when visiting or being a guest during Eid is etiquette. Islam highly values etiquette in how a Muslim behaves.
"Etiquette in various dimensions should receive primary attention. Here are the manners of visiting during Eid as summarized by Dream through various sources."
Etiquette of Visiting during Lebaran
"When Dream's friends visit anyone's house during Eid moments, there are several important etiquettes to be observed as quoted from islam.nu.or.id:"
1. Intention of Silaturahmi
Everything good should start with intention. Not to mention when you want to visit someone, you should also have good intentions. For example, visiting your parents' house to serve and strengthen the relationship between children and parents. God willing, if accompanied by good intentions, the visit will bring benefits and blessings from Allah SWT.
2. Waktu Silaturahmi translates to "2. Time for Gathering" in English.
During a visit, it is important to pay attention to the timing. Avoid visiting when the host is resting or just returning from a trip. This is to avoid disturbing their rest. It would be better if, before coming, Dream's friend gives a notice in advance so that the homeowner can prepare and determine the right time.
3. Not in a hurry
Hak menjamu tamu itu hanya tiga hari. Lebih dari itu adalah sedekah. Maka (setelah itu) hendaknya tamu pergi, sehingga tidak memberatkan tuan rumah.
4. No Picky
When visiting, it is better for Dream friends not to be selective. For example, only wanting to visit the homes of wealthy people. Meanwhile, poor people's houses are avoided. Regardless of the person's condition, whether rich or poor, old or young, it should not be used as a barrier to build relationships with them.
5. Maintaining Attitude and Politeness
Islam is a religion that always teaches goodness to its followers. One of them is about manners. This is also something that should be applied when visiting during the Eid moment. As a guest, it is our duty to maintain a respectful and polite attitude. For example, by greeting, shaking hands, and sitting when invited by the host. Avoid excessive talking or joking that might offend the host's feelings. Also, avoid paying too much attention to the condition inside the house.
6. Avoiding Slander
Other manners when visiting during Eid are to avoid slander. What it means is that when a friend from Dream is a man and wants to visit a house that is inhabited by a woman alone, then the man should bring his wife, his wife's family, or his sister.
7. Bringing Gifts
The following is the translation of the provided 'Bahasa' text to 'English' while preserving any html tags: "Etiquette of visiting during the next Eid is to bring a gift or a token. Whether it is for the homeowner, family, or their children. However, this is not a requirement that hinders someone from maintaining social ties. Because it is understood that everyone's circumstances are different."
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