Doa Meluluhkan Hati Orangtua dan Cara Agar Mendapatkan Restu serta Ridhonya

"Prayers to Melt the Hearts of Parents and Ways to Obtain Their Blessings and Pleasure"

Dream – Praying to soften the hearts of parents is practiced as an effort to obtain their blessings and approval. A child must seek blessings, approval, and permission from their parents so that their intended goals can be achieved smoothly and receive blessings from Allah SWT.

Some examples are the desire of children to continue their studies abroad, to start a new business, or to get married. Parents should be involved in every major plan in a child's life in order to obtain blessings and guidance from the father and mother. Based on a hadith, the Prophet Muhammad SAW said that the pleasure of Allah lies in the pleasure of both parents. "The pleasure of Allah depends on the pleasure of parents and the anger of Allah depends on the anger of parents." (HR. Thabrani) This is why it is important to recite prayers to soften the hearts of parents in order to obtain their blessings and pleasure.

Then how does reciting prayers soften the hearts of parents so that they can obtain their blessings and approval? Find out more in the following complete review, along with an explanation of the concept of parental blessings and the ways to soften the hearts of parents that Sahabat Dream needs to practice.

The main concept of Parental Blessing

In Islam, the blessing of parents is very important and respected. This view is based on the teachings of the Quran and Hadith, which emphasize the importance of being dutiful to parents. Here are some main concepts in Islam regarding the blessing of parents:

"Duty of Filial Piety towards Parents"

Islam requires every child to be obedient to their parents. In Surah Al-Isra verse 23, Allah SWT says: "Your Lord has commanded that you should not worship anyone but Him, and be kind to your parents. If one or both of them reach old age while in your care, do not say 'ah' to them or scold them, but speak to them with respect."

"Blessing as the Key to Happiness"

"In many Hadiths, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) emphasized the importance of obtaining blessings from parents. Blessings are considered as the key to prosperity and happiness in life. That is why every child is urged to respect and love their parents."

"Mustajabnya Doa Orangtua" translates to "The Efficacy of Parents' Prayers" in English.

Parents have a special privilege in their prayers. Parents' prayers are believed to have great power and are likely to be granted by Allah. Therefore, obtaining blessings from father or mother is also considered as a means to receive blessings from Allah.

How to Win Over Parents

"Melting the hearts of parents so that they give their blessings is not an easy matter. Especially if a child feels that their relationship with their father or mother is not very close. However, there are several steps that can help a child in the process of obtaining blessings from both parents. Here are some ways that Sahabat Dream can do to melt the hearts of parents:"

1. Respect and Obey

A child should respect and obey their parents while being obedient to Allah. Listen to your parents' advice attentively, respect their opinions, and obey the rules and values of the family.

2. Open Communication

Speak openly and honestly with your parents. Share your feelings, thoughts, and plans with Sahabat Dream in a way that respects their views. Also, listen to their opinions well.

3. Give Appreciation and Attention.

"To obtain the blessings and approval of parents, it is advisable for every child to give attention and respect to them. Take the time to talk to them, ask about their well-being, and show that you genuinely care about their needs and expectations."

4. Show a Sense of Responsibility

Parents tend to feel comfortable giving their blessings if they know that you are a responsible person. Show maturity, the ability to make good decisions, and responsibility in your daily life.

5. Patience Attitude

Meluluhkan hati orangtua mungkin memerlukan waktu dan kesabaran. Jangan terburu-buru atau memaksa kehendak. Bersikaplah sabar dan teruslah memperlihatkan niat baik Sahabat Dream kepada orangtua.

6. Submit Rational Arguments

Explain rationally and wisely why you make a certain decision or take that step. Convey arguments logically and based on careful consideration.

1. Prayer to Soften the Hearts of Parents

"رَبِّ زِدْنِي عِلْمًا، وَوَسِّعْ لِي فِي رِزْقِي، وَبَارِكْ لِي فِيمَا رَزَقْتَنِي، وَاجْعَلْنِي مَحْبُوبًا فِي قُلُوبِ عِبَادِكَ، وَعَزِيزًا فِي عُيُونِهِمْ، وَاجْعَلْنِي وَجْهًا فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالْآخِرَةِ مِنَ الْمُقَرَّبِينَ، يَا كَثِيرَ النَّوَالِ، يَا حَسَنَ الْفِعَالِ، يَا قَائِمَا بِالْأَزْوَالِ، يَا مُبْدِئًا بِلاَ مِثَالٍ، فَلَكَ الْحَمْدُ، وَالْمِنَّةُ، وَالشَّرَفُ عَلَى كُلِّ حَالٍ." "O Lord, increase me in knowledge, and expand my provision, and bless me in what You have provided for me, and make me beloved in the hearts of Your servants, and honorable in their eyes, and make me a face in this world and the Hereafter among the near ones. O One who bestows abundant favors, O One who does good deeds, O One who stands with steadfastness, O One who initiates without example, to You belongs all praise, and blessings, and honor in every situation."

"Meaning:"

"O Allah, grant me an increase in knowledge. Expand my sustenance. And bless the wealth that You have bestowed upon me. Make me beloved in the hearts of Your servants. And honorable in their eyes. Make me among those who are close to You in this world and the hereafter."

2. Prayer to Soften Parents' Hearts

To obtain the blessing and approval of parents, it is advisable to practice the following prayer to soften the hearts of parents: رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِنْ لِسَانِي يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي Translation: "O Allah, expand my chest and make my task easy for me and remove the impediment from my speech so that they may understand my words" (Quran, Surah Taha: 25-28)

3. Prayer for Both Parents

And lower yourself in humility to them with mercy and say: "My Lord! Have mercy on them both as they brought me up when I was small." (Quran 17:24)

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