Because everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Even the Prophet Muhammad SAW did not like his people who like to belittle and insult others. A story in a hadith narrated by Ibnul Mubarak states: "At that time, there was a fight between Abu Dzar al Ghiffari and Bilal bin Rabah, then insulting words came out of Abu Dzar's mouth: O son of a black woman. The Prophet Muhammad, who heard those words, became very angry. He said: O Abu Dzar, the measure has been reduced! There is no virtue for a white-skinned woman over a black-skinned woman!" (HR. Ibnul Mubarak)

In another hadith, the Prophet Muhammad again said to Abu Dzar, "Look, you will not be considered good just because of your red or black skin until you surpass them in piety." (HR. Ahmad). Allah SWT likes people who show kindness and compassion towards others. He then criticizes those who like to belittle and insult others. Because when we are belittled, we feel hurt and disappointed. However, we cannot control other people's actions towards us. So when others belittle us, it is better to practice the following prayer!

4. Maintain Self-Confidence: Believe in yourself and the values you possess. Criticism from others should not damage your self-esteem and self-confidence. 5. Avoid Revenge: Taking revenge will only worsen the situation. Try to restrain yourself and avoid unnecessary conflicts. 6. Focus on Support from Others: Redirect your attention to the support and love from the people closest to you who appreciate you. They will help you get through these difficult times.

9. Focus on Personal Growth: Use this experience as an opportunity to grow and develop as an individual. Keep learning and evolving, and use the insults as motivation to become better. 10. Seek Professional Help: If you find it too difficult to handle insults from others, consider seeking help from a counselor or therapist who can provide the support and guidance you need.