Ratih Ibrahim explained that in order to understand whether someone who often cheats can change, we need to look at their behavioral trends. "We can see from their behavioral trends, for example, when they were still dating, were they someone who likes to charm others? Were they flirtatious? Did they have many partners?" she said.

According to the study results, infidelity can shape behavior patterns and become a habit. "According to the study results, cheating can shape behavior patterns and become a habit. Well... the perpetrator can change, but it will be difficult because cheating has become their habit. It's like they've already experienced the pleasure," said Ratih.

"As a couple, we know each other very well. How is his behavior trend? What is his style? What are his needs? Everyone has good sides. Sides that can be helped to grow. Don't assume that this cheater is just playing around, but he actually needs a form of love and affection that only we can give," said Ratih in the video."

Ratih also emphasizes the importance of understanding the character of a partner to reduce heartache. For the final decision, it all goes back to the partner. "So, what should we do, Aunt?" Well... all the decisions are in your hands as the partner. Think carefully about all the decisions, okay," Ratih wrote in her caption.