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7 Obstacles to Finding a Soul Mate, One of Them is Neglecting Prayer

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7 Obstacles to Finding a Soul Mate, One of Them is Neglecting Prayer Things that can hinder the arrival of a soul mate (Illustration Photo: Pexels.com)

Dream – A soul mate is God's secret. Only Allah knows who our soul mate is and when they will come.

Everyone is allowed to have criteria for an ideal soul mate, but if Allah does not will it, it will never be fulfilled.

On the other hand, if Allah has willed it, someone who is never expected can become our soul mate.

However, it is not wrong to hope for a desired soul mate. Dream friends can strive with prayers. That is an effort to persuade Allah SWT so that what Dream friends want can be achieved.

However, you should also know that there are several things that can hinder the arrival of a soul mate. Therefore, Dream friends must always be careful.

Well, here are some things that can hinder the arrival of a soul mate as summarized by Dream through various sources.

Things that Can Hinder the Arrival of a Soul Mate

Things that Can Hinder the Arrival of a Soul Mate

Adultery

Adultery is one of the acts that is strongly prohibited by Allah SWT and can bring about a great sin. Therefore, Dream friends must be careful with every temptation of Satan. Including when hoping for someone who will be a life partner. So do it in a way that is in accordance with Islamic sharia and avoid adultery. Here is an explanation of the hadith about adultery narrated by Muslim:

"Every child of Adam has a portion of adultery and this is something that will definitely happen, it cannot be avoided. The adultery of the eyes is by looking. The adultery of the ears is by listening. The adultery of the tongue is by speaking. The adultery of the hands is by touching. The adultery of the feet is by walking. The adultery of the heart is by desiring and daydreaming. Then the genitals will either confirm or deny it." (HR. Muslim).

Seeking with Forbidden Wealth

Praying is an effort to get closer to Allah SWT and at the same time persuade Allah SWT to grant what we want. Of course, in praying, it must be done properly and in accordance with Islamic etiquette. Prayers will be difficult to be granted when someone who prays consumes forbidden food or wears forbidden clothing. As explained in the hadith narrated by Muslim:

"Then the Prophet mentioned about someone who travels a long journey, his hair is disheveled, then he raises his hands and says: O my Lord, O my Lord, while his food is haram, his drink is haram, his stomach is filled with something haram, then how can We grant his prayer?" (HR Muslim).

Engaging in Shirk

Maybe there are some people who really want to make someone their future partner. To the point that because they are afraid that person cannot be obtained or is too difficult to have, resorting to shirk becomes the chosen path. Even though this kind of way is strongly prohibited by Allah SWT and can become an obstacle to the arrival of a soul mate due to the sin it causes. Regarding the sin of shirk, it has been explained in Surah An-Nisa verse 48:

"Indeed, Allah does not forgive (the sin of) associating partners with Him (shirk), but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others with Allah has certainly fabricated a tremendous sin." (QS.An-Nisa: 48)

Disobeying Parents

As a child, one should treat their parents as best as possible. Therefore, in Islam, a person is prohibited from being disobedient to their parents because it can bring about a great sin. It can also become an obstacle to the arrival of a soul mate. As explained in Surah Al-Isra verse 23:

"And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], 'uff,' and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word." (QS.Al-Isra: 23)

Things That Can Hinder the Arrival of a Soulmate

Breaking the Bond of Silaturahmi

Silaturahmi is highly recommended in Islam. By maintaining silaturahmi, it can improve relationships among human beings. However, cutting off silaturahmi can have an impact on the difficulty of finding a soulmate. As explained in Surah Al-Hujurat verse 10:

أَلَا يَأْتِي الْجَمْعُ بَعْدَ الْفَرْقِ؟ بَيْنَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ وَبَيْنَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ الْمُؤْمِنِاتِ يَتَوَاصَلُونَ وَيَتَعَارَفُونَ وَيَتَحَابُّونَ وَتَتَبَرَّأُونَ وَتَتَعَاوَنُونَ بِالْحَقِّ

Meaning: "Verily, the believers are brothers. Therefore, make peace between your two brothers and fear Allah that you may receive mercy." (QS. Al-Hujurat: 10)

Neglecting Prayer

Prayer is an obligation for Muslims. Prayer is not only a form of worship, but also a way to get closer to Allah SWT and remember Him. When someone neglects prayer, it is possible that Allah SWT will also neglect that person. Even neglecting prayer can become an obstacle to finding a soulmate.

Hurried Prayer

Prayer should be done slowly and sincerely. Because praying involves the heart communicating with Allah SWT. So, do it slowly and attentively. When the proper etiquette in prayer is observed, insha Allah, Allah SWT will grant it. This also applies to finding a soulmate, dear Dreamer.

Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
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