Boosting Self-Confidence for Teenagers that Parents Can Do

"Confidence Booster for Teenagers that Can Be Done by Parents"

Boosting Self-Confidence for Teenagers that Parents Can Do

Dream - When children enter adolescence, it can be said that it is not an easy phase. Children are expected to be able to adapt to the burden of school, friendship, and also high peer pressure.

One thing that teenagers need in this phase is self-confidence, which can be a 'filter' so that they don't simply follow friends who have a negative influence on them.

According to Irma Gustiana, a family psychologist, self-confidence is one of the important components for survival.

"The problem is that many teenagers tend to lack self-confidence due to various reasons such as puberty, friendship issues, or other social pressures. Therefore, it is very important for parents to help navigate their development."
Irma's words

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There are many things that parents can do to improve or boost their child's self-confidence. Irma revealed several things that fathers and mothers can do to help teenagers become more confident individuals.

1. Don't be stingy with compliments.

Say praise or appreciation for what the child has done. No matter how small it is, this appreciation will have a significant impact on their self-confidence.

"Make sure we give praise, appreciation, or even awards for the achievements he has already achieved or the efforts he has made to achieve his goals," said Irma.

2. Encourage children to develop skills

"Invite and encourage children to develop their skills, talents, or natural abilities. For example, if they enjoy swimming/playing soccer, motivate them to participate in championships. Similarly, if a child enjoys music, provide support for them to hone their skills."

3. Invite to engage in the community

The ability to socialize, interact, and express opinions well does not just appear out of nowhere. Children need to learn these skills, and that ability will emerge if children actively participate in organizations. Being involved in communities and organizations will have a positive impact on self-confidence.

"Encourage children to be able to participate in social activities, communities, or organizations both within and outside of school," said Irma.

4. Discuss emotional and mental conditions

The following is the translation of the text from 'Bahasa' to 'English' while preserving any html tags: "What is also very important according to Irma is to get used to discussing the emotions being experienced by teenagers. Especially their mental and physical health condition."

"Discuss relevant issues regarding their mental health and overall well-being,"
Irma said

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Irma explained that if parents do those things, it will become a confidence booster for their children. Then, when their self-confidence increases, their self-esteem will also be much better. "Especially how they have a positive concept of themselves," Irma said. Source: IG @ayankirma

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