To avoid making mistakes, the opinion of Saskhya Aulia Prima, a family psychologist, may be taken into consideration. According to him, the first thing is to know the main values of the family. "How we want to raise our children, our own values as parents. It could be religion or other values, and the social values that we have. Also, how the world is developing. Understanding what challenges may arise in the future, so that we know what kind of character our child needs to have," said Saskhya.

"Sometimes as parents, we do know him every day, like how his temperament is, maybe his way of learning, maybe the things he enjoys, but there are often hidden things that do need us to discuss with experts, for example, psychologists, to know his thinking ability," said Saskhya. By fully understanding the child, parents also become more aware of his weaknesses and strengths. Analysis of the child's learning style, talents, and interests can be known through consultations and psychological tests conducted by psychologists."