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Dream - The limitless relationship between men and women in an era with easy access to information like today can cause many losses. This reality was found from a tweet by an obstetrician on social media platform X regarding a woman who came to his clinic because she was pregnant out of wedlock.
According to him, the 20-year-old girl wants to open her personal health document or 'pink book' as preparation for welcoming the birth of her child. The Malaysian obstetrician feels sorry for the girl because she has committed adultery with her male friend. When she came to his clinic, the girl was seen struggling to carry her enlarged belly.
"The thing that broke my heart, this girl came alone from her home in Segamat. Meanwhile, my clinic is in Johor Bahru. That's a long journey. The child admitted to taking a bus and an online taxi to the clinic. The family still doesn't know what happened," said the obstetrician."
After examining the girl's contents with an ultrasound, it turns out that her baby is healthy. After that, the obstetrician invited the girl to chat about several things. At first, the doctor reminded the girl not to have an abortion. Because carrying a child is a blessing. Many couples out there have been trying for years but have not been blessed with a child.
Then the doctor asked the girl about the whereabouts of her boyfriend. It turns out that her boyfriend is still in the same village as the girl.
According to the girl, her boyfriend will marry her if the baby in her womb has already been born. Her boyfriend refuses to accompany her to the clinic for a prenatal check-up because they recently had an argument.
Upon hearing that, the doctor could only shake his head. The man impregnated someone else's daughter but refused to take responsibility. "I asked the girl again, if she's sure she wants to marry her boyfriend? Because this man will be the imam and future father of her child." She remained silent. This is the main problem that I see in society, we focus too much on educating girls to preserve their dignity, to the point where we forget to teach boys to respect women," said the doctor.
The doctor then advised the girl and women out there to avoid engaging in intimate relationships before marriage. But if the rice has turned into porridge, the girl is asked to immediately inform her parents the truth. If they can accept it, then it will be easier for the girl to live her life afterwards.
"Before ending the examination session, the doctor then received a question from the girl that made him silent. 'Before finishing the examination session, the girl asked me, 'Does giving birth hurt, sis?' 'Oh God, I see this girl's face still looks like a child, I didn't expect that question to come out of her mouth,' said the doctor."
The doctor tried to calm her down by saying that giving birth is indeed painful but the girl was asked not to worry. "We have medicine and she will recover. This is a lesson for all of us, always pray to Allah to protect our offspring," said the doctor. Small signs of the end times when adultery becomes more and more rampant. It has even become something ordinary. "I will prepare a referral letter for the girl to go to a hospital or clinic in Segamat, closer and no need to go back and forth for check-ups," said the doctor, concluding his story.
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