Once Happy at Graduation, a Vocational School Student in West Bandung Died from Depression Due to Being Bullied for 3 Years

Sempat Happy During Graduation, Vocational School Student in West Bandung Dies from Depression Bullied for 3 Years

Once Happy at Graduation, a Vocational School Student in West Bandung Died from Depression Due to Being Bullied for 3 Years

Dream - A vocational high school student in West Bandung Regency died due to depression after being bullied for three years at school. The victim, with the initials NFN, often received unpleasant treatment from her friends during her three years of schooling.

Mother NFN, Siti Aminah found out that her child was being bullied after receiving a report from her daughter's friend. Siti has repeatedly wanted to report the incident to the school, but the victim has always been prohibited. "They didn't dare to tell me about the problem at first, I found out everything from their friend's account. Even when I wanted to report it to the school, the deceased also forbid it, because the deceased always said that (going to school) is for seeking knowledge, not for seeking enemies," said Siti, quoted on Tuesday, June 11, 2024.

"To calm her mother, the late often said she could overcome the bullying she received. Although initially believed, Siti received information again about the unpleasant treatment her child received."

"Bullying Action"

Her child often receives harsh words and is asked to carry a friend who is suspected of being a bully. She admitted to asking both the parents and the perpetrator, but they did not admit their actions.

"Before passing away, his child felt happy after graduation because he could escape from bullying for the past three years. However, his health began to deteriorate until he passed away. "Many of his friends said that my daughter was too good to this perpetrator. Before getting sick, my daughter had a decoration committee performance event. On Tuesday, when she came home, Alhamdulillah, she will graduate soon, she won't meet the perpetrator again, she was very happy. That's what she said last," he explained."

"From the beginning, the school authorities came to the house, but they were already late. Because since I asked the perpetrator's parents to come, the answer has always been 'wait later'. We are still waiting for the school to show good intentions. We have been waiting for this handling for a long time, why didn't it start from the beginning," he added, as quoted by Dream from Merdeka.com. The Head of Rajawali Health Vocational School, Rizki Zaskia Hilmi, spoke out about the alleged bullying incident involving one of their students with the initials NFN."

"During less than three years of our study period, the school did not receive any reports from students A and N, both students' parents, as well as fellow students related to bullying," said Rizki, as quoted from Jabar Ekspres.

According to him, in December 2023, the school once gathered students and parents for a report distribution activity. At that time, the school briefly opened a consultation session for students to express any difficulties they experienced. However, none of the parents revealed any challenges or problems they had.

"Both parents of each child are fine. Both parents of N and A are also good friends because they live in the same village," said Rizki. According to him, the school only became aware of the bullying case when NFN fell ill after attending an art performance on May 8, 2024. Then on May 12, 2024, NFN's parents reported to the homeroom teacher that their child fell ill after being bullied by their friend, A."

"On May 8, 2024, student N asked for permission to go home due to illness. Then on May 12, 2024, his parents reported to the school that he was sick because of bullying," explained Rizki. "So on May 8, N and A never had any interaction. To follow up, we held mediation between the two parties on May 15, 2024, but because both parties were still emotional, the mediation was unsuccessful, so the school decided to continue gathering information," Rizki revealed. It didn't stop there, the school once again attempted mediation between the student and the parents on May 27, 2024. At that time, the victim NFN was still in a sick condition, but both parties agreed to reconcile verbally. After that, on May 30, NFN was reported to have passed away."

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