Dream - Every woman who gets married certainly hopes that her marriage with the man of her choice can last until death separates them. However, unfortunately, not all of those hopes can be realized. There are times when a marriage actually falls apart along the way.
"What is more painful is that the cause of the marriage's downfall actually comes from the attitude of the couple themselves. Like the sad story of a woman's marriage, let's call her Arama, which was destroyed because of her husband's behavior."
"Through her TikTok account, Arama tells the story of how her husband has betrayed and disappointed her throughout their marriage. 'Her own best friend became the thorn in our marriage,' she expressed in a post on TikTok."
In the post, Arama appeared to show a moment of herself in a photo together at her husband's friend's wedding event.
"Husband Caught Cheating"
Arama then revealed the reason for their marriage that only lasted for one year. Apparently, her husband was caught cheating. Not with a woman, but with a man in the wedding photo. With a tone of anger, Arama wants to tell everything so that she and her husband can be destroyed together.
"Let everyone know your faces, how rotten you both are betraying the marriage for desire. Still can't believe experiencing all of this. My own husband is a lover of the same gender."
expressed Arama, who is disappointed and hurt by her husband's actions.
Son of a Ustaz and Mosque Imam
According to Arama, initially her marriage with a man, let's call him TR, was going well. TR appeared normal like any other man. TR even wanted to have children with Arama quickly. "We never did anything inappropriate because his father is an Islamic preacher and mosque imam," said Arama.
Strange Message from Husband's Grandmother
Although TR wants to have a child quickly, but his grandmother asks the couple to wait for 40 days with the reason to ensure their fortune. But after 40 days passed, TR never touched Arama at all with various reasons. Arama tries to hide the condition of their household from their extended family because she doesn't want them to hate TR.
"Not Touched for Months, Instead Reprimanded"
Until 8 months of marriage, TR still hasn't touched Arama. TR even divorced Arama. "It feels really devastated and I told my family that I have never been given emotional support during our marriage," said Arama.
In the 9th month, the TR family came to Arama's house to discuss everything. Arama agreed to fix their marriage even without their parents' blessing because their trust in TR has been destroyed.
However, in the following month, Arama's mother found out about her daughter's household problems. She asked her daughter to just come home. However, Arama refused. "Mother knows that until now I have not been given emotional support, mother cried and asked me to come home (but) I don't want to," she said.
Mother Passed Away
"How regretful Arama is until now for not obeying his mother's request. Because two days later, his mother passed away. 'In front of my mother's grave, I was blamed by my father 'This is because of you, if you had followed your mother, she wouldn't have died',' expressed Arama."
The household life of Arama is still going on as usual without any changes in her husband's attitude. Until it became clear why her husband never touched her for almost a year. Apparently, her husband is a man who is attracted to the same gender. This was revealed when Arama found the evidence on January 21, 2024.
At that time, Arama read her husband's message to her friend discussing the type of man that suits her criteria.
Choose to Separate Houses and Prepare for Divorce
"My husband wants a (male) who has smooth legs, a good body, and tastes good. Even though I also know his friend," said Arama. After finding out that her husband is actually attracted to the same sex, Arama decided to separate. It has been a month since Arama admitted to living apart from her husband, and she is currently handling the divorce proceedings."
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