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Law of Exposing the Partner's Shame in Marriage, Be Careful of its Punishment in the Hereafter

Law of Exposing the Partner's Shame in Marriage, Be Careful of its Punishment in the Hereafter

"As a wife, one should be able to keep her husband's secrets as discreetly as possible, and vice versa."

Dream - In Islam, a wife is commanded to cover her husband's faults. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) also did not like it when a wife frequently complained about her husband's shortcomings to others. This is explained in the following hadith: "I do not like women who leave their homes dragging their garments and complaining about their husbands' faults to others." (Narrated by At-Thabrani with a weak chain of narration) So, as a wife, one should try to keep her husband's faults as hidden as possible. Similarly, the husband should also cover his wife's faults.

"However, if there is a husband's disgrace related to Domestic Violence (KDRT), it is advisable to report it immediately for deterrence. Because such actions are considered sinful."

The Law of Revealing the Faults of a Partner in a Household, Be Careful with the Punishment in the Hereafter
The Law of Revealing the Faults of a Partner in a Household, Be Careful with the Punishment in the Hereafter

Well, here is a further explanation regarding the law of exposing a partner's disgrace within a household as summarized by Dream through various sources.

"Law of Exposing Spouse's Faults in Marriage and Its Punishment"

"Islam strictly prohibits exposing the flaws of one's spouse within a household. Therefore, both husband and wife must safeguard the flaws of their partner."

This is because there is a very serious threat to someone who exposes their partner's shame. Especially in this era where the use of social media is rampant, which is used as a means to express oneself. Rasulullah saw said, "Indeed, the person with the worst position on the Day of Judgment is a man (husband) who has sexual intercourse with his wife and then reveals his wife's secrets." (HR Muslim)

Regarding the above hadith, Ibn Abbas, Imam al-Kurthubi, Mujahid, and others believe that the hadith is related to the relationship between husband and wife. Meanwhile, Al-Hirawy and Al Kalbiy say that the hadith is not only about intimate relationships. But it can also be when husband and wife are alone together even without being physically intimate. Sheikh Abdullah al-Bassam also explains that the flaws in a couple can include the body parts of the husband and wife. Including what is inside them, the secrets between them that each of them does not like if others know about it.

In a hadith, it is also explained about the punishment for someone who exposes their partner's shame: "The person who gossips and exposes their partner's shame, Allah will bind them with a big snake on the Day of Judgment." (Narrated by Ahmad)

"The Virtue of Guarding the Tongue"

"The tongue becomes one of the body parts that must be well-maintained. Especially when dealing with other people."

"Through speech, it is not uncommon to cause conflicts and rifts in relationships. This includes marital relationships. Speech can also become a source of exposing a partner's flaws if not well-guarded. Now, here are some virtues of guarding one's speech that friends of Dream need to know:"

1. Promised Heaven

The first virtue of guarding the tongue is promised paradise. As explained in a hadith:

2. Get Great Rewards

Preserving HTML tags, the translation of the given 'Bahasa' text to 'English' is as follows: "Keeping one's tongue well can also earn great rewards. This is explained in the words of Allah SWT through Surah An-Nisa verse 144: 'There is no good in much of their private conversation, except for those who enjoin charity or that which is right or reconciliation between people. And whoever does that seeking Allah's pleasure, then We will give him a great reward.' (Quran, An-Nisa: 114)"

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