Still Remember the Story of Bu Bidan, the Army Wife who was Left by Her Affair? Her Fate was Suspended After Being Divorced

Dream - Still remember the midwife from Bengkulu who asked for a divorce from her husband who is a Military Police officer?

Previously, the married life of midwife with the initial A was very heartbreaking. She felt very disappointed with her husband.

Because, midwife A had already helped with the family's economy. But her husband chose to have an affair with another woman.

Midwife A was furious and devastated because she had tried to be a good wife in the eyes of her husband and in-laws.

She fulfilled her duty as a good wife. Prepared all her husband's needs while on duty.

Not only that, Bidan A sacrificed herself to make her husband happy. She even helped make a living by selling face cream around.

From that business, Bidan A and her husband were able to save little by little until they could finally build a simple house together.

Bidan A also bought all the furniture and furnishings to fill their new home with her husband.

But Bidan A was disappointed after finding out that her husband was having an affair with another woman. She even found the mistress's sandals under the living room chair.

Bidan A then poured out her marital problems on social media, which eventually went viral. The post apparently triggered a reaction from her husband.

Apparently, after being caught cheating, her husband blocked all communication with Bidan A.

Bidan A has even moved out of the house and claimed that she is no longer provided for physically and emotionally by her husband.

After going viral, her husband immediately filed for divorce against Bidan A. Unfortunately, the divorce process in the military environment is difficult.

Bidan A felt suspended with the divorce status filed by her husband. Finally, Bidan A viralizes her divorce process again.

Bidan A showed WhatsApp messages sent to her husband's commander and superiors in his unit.

In a lengthy message with the background of the Persit uniform, Bidan A asked for clarification on the status of her husband's divorce lawsuit.

In addition, Bidan A also pleaded with her husband's commander or superiors to expedite the divorce process.

"I beg your permission, General, my request is not extravagant, I just want to continue my life with a clear status.

"Considering that I am no longer provided for physically and emotionally. Here, I can no longer communicate with my husband.

"We can't even meet. All access is closed. I seek your guidance, General. Thank you," Bidan A wrote to her husband's commander.

Bidan A was called to the unit to provide information regarding the viral TikTok video.

But Bidan A insisted that she did not intend to defame the institution or others. She just wanted clarity on the status of her divorce.

After uploading several TikTok videos that told the story of her struggle for justice, Bidan A finally received a summons from the Religious Court.

"Alhamdulillah, after I made it viral on TikTok, I received a summons from the Religious Affairs Office in Bengkulu Province. Please pray for a smooth process without any more drama," Bidan A concluded.

Source: TikTok

Heartbreaking Confession of Bu Bidan, the Army Wife, Who Worked Hard to Make a Living from Scratch, but Her Husband Cheated and Brought His Mistress Home

Dream - The married life of a midwife named A was very heartbreaking. She felt very disappointed with her husband.

She had already helped him financially, but her husband, who worked as a military police officer, chose to have an affair with another woman.

Of course, Bidan A was furious and devastated. She had tried to be a good wife in the eyes of her husband and in-laws.

The story began when they got married and lived in the military police barracks. Bidan A was happy with her marriage, even though they had to live in the barracks.

Worried about her husband's safety during his duty, Bidan A prepared all his needs. She even fed him breakfast by spoon-feeding him.

"It is my duty as a wife that I never neglect. I always prepare your needs when you are on duty," Bidan A said.

When her husband was on duty in the forest, Bidan A didn't forget to prepare mosquito repellent oil, a pillow, medicine, and a jacket.

Similarly, when her husband was assigned to be a security officer at the 2018 Asian Games. No matter how small her husband's needs were, Bidan A helped prepare them.

"I missed you so much that I followed you again to be a security officer at the Asian Games. Wherever you are assigned, I always accompany you," she added.

Not only that, Bidan A also worked to make a living by selling face cream around.

From the business she pursued, Bidan A and her husband were able to save little by little. From their joint savings, they finally managed to build a simple house.

While the house was still being built, Bidan A spent money to buy furniture. She even bought a new air conditioner for her husband.

"While I was helping to make a living, I always bought clothes for you, to make you happy," Bidan A said.

To make her husband happier, Bidan A celebrated his birthday simply like others.

Bidan A's business flourished and she decided to open her own business, which was her first.

No matter how much income she earned from the cosmetics business, she always honestly shared it with her husband.

Bidan A's income increased, to the point where she could buy a car and furnish their new home with expensive furniture.

But Bidan A was disappointed after finding out that her husband was having an affair with another woman. She even found the mistress's sandals under the living room chair.

As a result, Bidan A, who felt heartbroken, had to sell the living room chair that she bought with her hard-earned money.

"I bought everything in this house with my sweat. Even though I have sold the chair, considering that it was the chair where I found evidence of your affair," Bidan A recalled.

Not only that, Bidan A warned that the house they built together would never fully belong to her husband.

"I will not let your affair enjoy the fruits of my labor. I ask that everything be sold and the proceeds be divided in half.

"We have been destroyed together, so we must start from scratch with our respective partners," she pleaded.

Currently, Bidan A just wants to separate from her husband because no matter how much we love someone, if that person never appreciates having us, it is better to let go.

"I just want to be released from the shackles of destruction. I want to rise on my own without you," she said.

In the end of her video, Bidan A tries to find the lessons from her crumbling marriage.

"It turns out that I fought with the wrong person. Our business is ruined, our house is neglected. We are growing apart, communication is cut off," she said.

About the turmoil in her marriage, Bidan A is currently like an enemy to her husband. Her mental and emotional state is shattered, her life is in turmoil.

In addition, Bidan A can learn from her married life with her husband, who is a military police officer:

1. Do not love someone more than we love the Creator
2. Do not rely too much on humans, but only rely on Allah
3. Do not trust someone too much, even if it is your heaven
4. Do not be too honest about your hard work
5. Do not be too independent in front of your husband, as it will make them complacent.

Source: TikTok