"Dream - Facing the attitudes and personalities of each child will definitely be very different. Parents may face many challenges. Sometimes parenting goes well, but it cannot be denied that conflicts also arise."

"Arguing back and forth with children is also very difficult to avoid, especially when they are entering their teenage years and starting to be able to defend their opinions. One of the things we often instill in children is based on their birth order."

"To the eldest child, unknowingly, parents 'impose' a great responsibility. Meanwhile, sometimes the child is not ready to accept it. For example, being asked to be the 'parent' to their younger siblings when the parents are not home."

Here is the translation of the provided text while preserving the HTML tags: "Then they often asked him to back down because he was considered the oldest sibling. This cannot be denied, over time it shaped his personality. According to Intan Erlita, a psychologist, a child's character can be formed based on their birth order."

"According to research, a child's character can be influenced by their birth order. The characteristics of the firstborn are independent, perfectionist, more cautious, and rule-abiding," said Intan.

"Not only that, it also revealed that the first child or eldest child receives a stricter education. This may be because parents 'prepare' the eldest's mentality to become the leader in the house when there are no parents."

The first child also tends to be more caring and protective. Both towards their parents and their younger siblings. Isn't that right, parents?

"Our task as parents is to be wiser in supporting their growth and development and to make them great characters in the future," said Intan. Source: IG@intan__erlita