Obstetrician Reveals Sad Reality, Husband Only Looks at Phone Screen While Accompanying Wife for Pregnancy Check-up

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Obstetrician Reveals Sad Reality, Husband Only Looks at Phone Screen While Accompanying Wife's Pregnancy Check-Up.

Obstetrician Reveals Sad Reality, Husband Only Looks at Phone Screen While Accompanying Wife for Pregnancy Check-up

Dream - Pregnant women are strongly advised to undergo regular pregnancy check-ups with a doctor or midwife once a month. If more intensive monitoring is needed, examinations may even be conducted every two weeks.

During this examination, the doctor or midwife will explain many things to the mother and father about the baby's development, what should and should not be done for a successful pregnancy until delivery. Of course, this is for the health and safety of the mother and fetus.

The following is the translation of the given 'Bahasa' text to 'English' while preserving any html tags: "Fathers certainly have a very important role when accompanying the mother in the doctor's room. There will be a lot of medical information to be conveyed, so attention and focus should be directed towards the mother and the doctor's explanation."

"Do not let the father be busy with himself and unaware of the mother's condition. An obstetrician and gynecologist, Dr. Purnawan Senoaji revealed a sad fact that he often encounters in his practice, which is husbands who constantly stare at their mobile phones and are not focused on their wives' examination."

Doctor Purnawan tells a story when one of his patients who was pregnant had a routine check-up accompanied by her husband. Throughout the examination, the husband only stared at his cellphone screen, which turned out to be playing an online game.

"Curious about what online game is currently very popular. Last night, there was a husband accompanying his wife for a pregnancy check-up, but his eyes and hands were glued to the mobile screen.. and his wife just let it be, as if she already understood," expressed Dr. Purnawan in his Instagram @purnawansenoaji_dr. This situation made him curious and unsettled. Various questions arose because the wives' response seemed to have become a common thing."

"Does this kind of gaming model generate money or is it just for fun? What is the majority response from wives about this? Especially in front of other people," wrote Dr. Purnawan.

Answered by the Wives

The upload from Dr. Purnawan has caused many wives who have faced that situation to give their answers in the comment section. Most of them apparently just accept it to avoid conflict. "Honestly, doc, instead of complaining and starting a world war, we choose to stay silent.. 😢," commented @chacaendrawati.

"I don't know if his wife is aware or has given up, doc," wrote @ameliadevegaa. "Seems like she's already tired of reminding him.. rather than getting angry, it's better to stay silent," expressed @llsnvtsr. "By coincidence, I am a birth photographer. I've experienced a client who was already dilated to 7 or 8, already in the delivery room, while holding back contractions, the husband was busy playing online games. Only occasionally getting him a drink \ud83d\ude2d I really wanted to take his phone and say, 'Dad, is it possible for me to make a video of you playing games?'" commented @sarizahara, sharing her experience. Source: IG @purnawansenoaji_dr"

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