"Dream - Children are born with their own character and personality. Although they have the same mother and father, each child surely has very different attitudes and personalities."
There are some who are calm, quiet, intelligent, smart, and there are also those who are stubborn. Is a beloved child included in the stubborn ones? If yes, parents might find themselves overwhelmed.
There are some who are calm, quiet, smart, intelligent, and there are also those who are stubborn. Is a beloved child included in the stubborn children? If so, parents may find it overwhelming. Stubborn children tend to want to try something and not listen to others' opinions. They will only know the negative consequences of their actions after trying something and learning from their experiences. The immediate consequences are more 'effective' for stubborn children.
"Behind his tough attitude and character that often gives parents a headache, did you know that it actually has a positive impact?"
"Every child has their own strengths and weaknesses, ma'am. Even children who appear stubborn actually have many strengths that cannot be ignored," expressed Audrey Susanto, a family psychologist."
Audrey revealed that there are four advantages possessed by a stubborn child. What are they? 1. Not Easily Giving Up "Do you feel it, mom? Even though they have been told not to, children will try various ways to persuade their parents to get what they want. Later, when they grow up and face difficulties, this will make them willing to try other ways," Audrey said. This will later, when they are adults and face many challenges, make children very creative in finding solutions. When they fail, they also do not easily give up, mom and dad.
2. Always Willing to Take on Challenges "When faced with a challenge, children do not immediately refuse and say they cannot do it. Usually, children need to 'try it out' first before accepting the results," said Audrey. This stubborn tendency will make children always brave to try. Certainly, this is an advantage when children become adults and are faced with many difficult decisions.
3. Not Easily "Swept Away"
"Stubborn children usually have strong desires. Behind their desires, there is often a strong reason as well. Later, when their friends ask them to do something that goes against their values, the child will be able to refuse more easily because they understand their needs and desires," Audrey said.
4. High Curiosity
he translation of the given 'Bahasa' text to 'English' while preserving any html tags is as follows: Anak yang keras kepala juga punya rasa ingin yang tahu tinggi. Ia akan mengulik sesuatu ketika untuk menjawab rasa penasarannya, dan bisa jadi 'modal' ketika dewasa nanti. Stubborn children also have a strong sense of curiosity. They will investigate something in order to satisfy their curiosity, and it can be an 'asset' in the future when they grow up.
"Children often want to know everything. They ask detailed questions and seek to find out about everything, to the point that their parents become overwhelmed\ud83d\ude2d. But if you think about it, isn't this ability good for children? They won't easily believe things that seem unreasonable to them, because they will try to find out first," Audrey said. Source: IG @audreytsusanto
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