Prayer of Proposal and Its Important Islamic Etiquettes to be Observed by Prospective Bride and Groom

"Prayer of Proposal and its Etiquettes in Accordance with Islamic Law that Prospective Bride and Groom Should Pay Attention to"

Dream - Proposal is the first gateway for someone to end their single life. They have found a partner whom they believe is suitable to be their future life companion. God willing, until death do us part. Before the wedding ceremony is held, usually a proposal event or in Islam known as khitbah will be conducted. In this moment, both families of the prospective bride and groom will meet and get to know each other. Besides ensuring the smooth running of the event, Dream's friends should not forget to recite the proposal prayer.

This prayer is practiced on the night before the engagement. However, it is advisable for Dream's friends to perform the prayer of need (sholat hajat) and the prayer of seeking guidance (sholat istikharah) before reading the engagement prayer. Here is the reading of the engagement prayer that you can practice as summarized by Dream through various sources.

"Prayer of Proposal"

The following is a reading of a marriage prayer as quoted from jatim.nu.or.id:

"Ya Allah, indeed You are the All-Determining, and it is not I who determines. And You are the All-Knowing of what I do not know. You are the Knower of the unseen. So if You see goodness between me and (..... [mention the name of the prospective partner, son/daughter of his/her father]), for my religion and my hereafter, then decree that I be with him/her."

Etiquette of Proposal According to Islamic Law

"Etiquette and procedures in a proposal must follow Islamic law so that the process goes well and is blessed by Allah SWT. Here are some etiquette that need to be considered in the proposal process according to Islamic law:"

1. Sincere Intention Intend the proposal as an act of worship to Allah SWT with the goal of building a harmonious, loving, and merciful household. 2. Istikharah Perform istikharah prayer before deciding to propose in order to seek guidance from Allah SWT regarding the choice of a life partner. 3. Getting to Know Each Other Get to know the potential partner well within the limits allowed by Islamic law, such as through family intermediaries or trusted friends.

4. Not Being Alone Together Avoid being alone with a potential partner before marriage to preserve purity and honor. 5. Engagement Process Sending a Representative: It is recommended for the man to send a representative to convey the intention and purpose of proposing. Communication with the Guardian: The proposal is made to the female guardian (usually the father) as a form of respect and in accordance with Islamic regulations. Presence of Dowry: A dowry or bridal gift is agreed upon and given according to the ability and mutual agreement.

6. Consultation and Consent The decision to propose is made through consultation and obtaining consent from both families. 7. Politeness and Respect Maintaining manners, language, and a polite attitude throughout the proposal process. This reflects good character and respect for the prospective partner's family. 8. Prayer and Trust in God After all the processes are done, pray to Allah SWT for ease and blessings in the journey towards marriage.

9. Expediting Marriage\t\tThe last etiquette is expediting marriage. This is to avoid any slander towards the prospective bride and groom.

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