According to her, her husband did not include her in the in-laws' WhatsApp group. This made her feel unappreciated and isolated from her husband's family. "After getting married, my father immediately added her to all of our family groups. But until now, my husband has not added me to his family group," said the woman.

However, the woman feels that her presence in her husband's family is not appreciated. The woman admits that she is not the type of person who likes to ask, if not invited, she will not join. "But how can I know if my husband's family has any events or plans, if I am always isolated like this?" she added disappointedly.

Meanwhile, netizens also argue that this situation has its own positive side. "Don't worry, you will feel happier if you don't join the large family group of your husband. It will only make you overthink, it's better for us to stay apart." My experience when joining my husband's family WhatsApp group, if we are not actively talking, they will talk about us behind our backs. Don't stress yourself out. "Maybe your husband's family is like that, the group is only for immediate family members, not including the in-laws. It's about privacy."