The Increasingly Horrifying Bullying Cases, Psychologist's Message So Children Won't Become Perpetrators

Kasus Bullying Makin Mengerikan, Pesan Psikolog Biar Anak Tak Jadi Pelaku

The translation of the given 'Bahasa' text to 'English' while preserving any HTML tags is: "Cases of Bullying are Getting More Terrifying, Psychologist's Message to Prevent Children from Becoming Perpetrators"

Dream - A number of bullying cases in several regions in Indonesia have reached a terrifying stage. Some victims have to receive intensive care in hospitals because they are in critical condition, even left with lifelong disabilities. Not to mention their psychological condition, which experiences severe trauma.

The Increasingly Horrifying Bullying Cases, Psychologist's Message So Children Won't Become Perpetrators

That is certainly very worrying and many parents are unaware that their children are actually bullies. For fathers and mothers, especially those with teenagers, it is important to provide moral stimulation to prevent them from becoming bullies.

What is meant by moral stimulus? Irma Gustiana, a psychologist through her Instagram @ayankirma, moral stimulus is the continuous cultivation of moral values in children. This will shape children into individuals who have empathy, respect differences, and can solve problems without violence.

"It is very possible that children or teenagers who become perpetrators of bullying lack guidance and mentoring at home, which is why they are able to engage in such actions. Surely, we do not want children to become bullies, so it is really necessary to have a strategy in parenting by providing moral stimulation as early as possible."
kata Irma translates to "Irma's words" in English.

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Some moral stimuli that parents must do, the most fundamental is to create safe and comfortable communication with their children. From an early age, establish good communication with your loved ones. This will make the corrections we make more effective when children make mistakes.

Always remember to build connections before correcting. Poor communication between parents and children will be like a time bomb that can explode at any time and affect all aspects of a child's growth and development.

Teach children about empathy and social concern for others, about respecting differences, even regarding differences in opinions. Also instill in children an awareness of what emotions they are currently feeling.

"Also teach them healthy and constructive ways in problem-solving," said Irma."

It is important for parents to always remind their children to be wiser and more selective in using social media or online games. This is because some things they see in them are often imitated by children. Another important thing is to always be a good role model. Parents are the example that children see every day. Do not let them become bullies by imitating their parents' negative behavior.

"Need to be a role model of positive behavior. So we practice healthy ways of interacting and respecting others, being empathetic and certainly constructive ways in problem-solving," the message.

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