"2023: Finally after 4 years of dating, we got married. After four days of being married," wrote the caption of the TikTok account @wytrist. In the post, she showed her wedding photo while disguising her ex-husband's face. Then in the next photo, she uploaded the divorce certificate from the Batang Religious Court. The woman, known as Ani, narrated the chronology of her story through X @anicann9. She had carefully considered the consequences after sharing her story."

"Waktu itu aku sepakat menjalin komitmen saat itu sampai akhirnya pacaran lah. Kita menjalani hubungan dari awal lebih banyak LDR nya. Dulu aku masih SMA kelas 3 pas waktu awal pacaran dia masih pengangguran dan waktu itu dia mau merantau di Kalimantan, pas waktu mau ke Kalimantan dia pamitan sama orang tua ku dan janji bakal ngelamar aku sama bawa budenya, dan awal mula itu LDR tuh kita," ungkap Ani. Menurut Ani, mantan suaminya akhirnya pulang ke rumahnya di Batang, Jawa Tengah, karena ada panggilan kerja dari perusahaan ternama. Ani bahkan membantu persiapan hingga pria tersebut lolos menjadi pramugara. --- "At that time, I agreed to commit until eventually we started dating. We had a long-distance relationship from the beginning. Back then, I was in my third year of high school, and at the start of our relationship, he was still unemployed and wanted to migrate to Kalimantan. When he was about to go to Kalimantan, he said goodbye to my parents and promised to propose to me while bringing his aunt. That was the beginning of our long-distance relationship," Ani revealed. According to Ani, her ex-husband eventually returned to his home in Batang, Central Java, because he received a job offer from a well-known company. Ani even helped with the preparations until the man passed his training to become a flight attendant.

"After that, he kept his promise to seriously propose to Ani. At that time, they had been dating for two years. He persuaded Ani to marry young. 'Because he was caring and looked really serious, I, who was so in love, finally agreed. In the end, we got engaged on December 23, 2020, at that time he was still all sweet with me, flirting and asking to marry every day, and I was indeed caught in his charm,' she explained. The Covid-19 pandemic delayed their wedding plans. A year later, the man began to get close to another woman, and his attitude towards Ani changed."

"Every affair he had was always with his girlfriend and usually with a coworker. In 2022, he did this a lot, and foolishly, I could be swayed to forgive him repeatedly without realizing it 😢. Returning to the main story, in June 2022, he suddenly changed for the better, and both families agreed to expedite our marriage," she said. As if the universe disapproved, Ani faced many trials leading up to her wedding on January 29, 2023. In fact, her fiancé suddenly wanted to cancel the wedding because he wasn't ready to marry.\u00a0"

"I stayed patient there and kept forgiving him, but as a few months approached the big day, suddenly he said that he wasn't ready to get married young, still wanted to have fun, and wanted to enjoy his youth. Well, I was clearly angry because when he talked to his parents, they agreed with the wedding date that had been set," Ani revealed. She explained that her wedding day was just around the corner. She did not want to cancel her wedding. Ani believed that this incident was just a temptation for those who wanted to get married and she was determined to fight for it.

"Ani has also booked a makeup artist and a fitting for her wedding dress. Her partner promised to come home, but once again he disappointed Ani and suddenly couldn't join her to try on the wedding dress. Ani is truly alone in preparing for her wedding. She also wants to build a house after getting married. Ani hopes her partner can stay in Batang and leave his job at that time. When she wanted to have a pre-wedding photo shoot on January 20, her ex couldn't come. After she found out, it turned out her partner was cheating with another woman because Ani found the evidence."

On the first night, her partner left Ani. Instead, he took his friends to play games until dawn. "The worst part was that I was left sleeping alone while he and his friends were secretly having a barbecue and drinking at my house (I found out after I divorced his friend). In the morning, I woke up to find a lot of mess from the party last night, and I had to clean all the dirty dishes," she said. After the second day of marriage, there was a procession for the bride and groom. However, her partner refused to join and chose to accompany his coworker instead. In the end, Ani asked another friend for help to take her.

"I felt so much crying, cold sweats, and trembling at that moment, and this person actually already had a boyfriend, they had been dating for 3 years and still wanted to be with someone else's husband. A moment later, I don't know how, but she suddenly came out of my house and showed up at my office while yelling at me," Ani recalled. "After that, she was silent and didn't apologize at all, not feeling guilty whatsoever, and my emotions overflowed to the point that I had to ask for permission to tell my parents about everything that happened, and she allowed it, she just said, 'It's up to you what you want to do,' she added."