Dream - As a husband and wife couple, it is not only based on love, but also includes commitment, cooperation, and supporting each other. In Islam itself, marriage is one form of worship that can bring great rewards. Therefore, to be able to attain these rewards, it cannot be said to be easy. A husband must be able to guide his wife towards goodness, and likewise, a wife also has the duty to be a good companion.
Even the wife can become a helper for her husband in the afterlife. So that both of them will not be dragged into hell.
Then, what kind of wife can be a helper for her husband in the hereafter? Here are the criteria as summarized by Dream through various sources.
1. Having Sufficient Religious Knowledge
The first criterion for a wife who can be a helper to her husband in the afterlife is to have sufficient knowledge of religion. With this knowledge of religion, a wife can effectively distinguish between actions that bring sin and those that do not, between what is good and what is bad. Therefore, when the husband does something that is not in accordance with religious rules, a good wife's duty is to remind him. In this way, the husband is saved from sin.
2. Always Reminding Husband
The second criterion is a wife who always reminds her husband. That is why it was previously explained that a wife is important to have knowledge. Because in living this life, it cannot be denied that we often do something that deviates from His path. So, when married, a good partner is someone who reminds to return to the right path.
"Not only wives remind their husbands, but husbands as the head of the household also have to remind their wives properly when they do something that goes against religious rules. Therefore, both of them will become helpers for each other in the afterlife."
3. Covering Aurat and Guarding Oneself
The criteria for a wife to become her husband's savior in the afterlife are a wife who can cover her modesty and maintain her dignity. Just as Islam teaches its followers to always guard their modesty well. This is also related to knowledge. Where a wife who has sufficient knowledge, especially religious knowledge, will understand how to guard her modesty. A wife who has guarded her modesty well has also honored her husband.
4. Having Knowledge to Live
The following is the translation of the given 'Bahasa' text to 'English' while preserving any html tags: "Religious knowledge is indeed very important, but it is also important to have knowledge for living. Because life in this world does not always go smoothly. There are times when we can always do activities easily, but there are also times when we are faced with something difficult. Well, it is in these difficult situations that knowledge for living is needed."
"How she behaves with patience, resilience, and what kind of strategy she chooses to face such conditions. Such criteria for a wife can bring goodness and safety to her husband and family."
5. Obedience to Husband in Matters of Goodness
Islam teaches that a wife must be obedient to her husband. However, in this context, obedience refers to being obedient to goodness. If a husband's command leads to wrongdoing, then the wife is obligated to refuse it. On the other hand, if the husband invites towards goodness and the wife refuses, then this is considered disobedience. Such criteria may prevent her from being a helper to her husband in the afterlife. Moreover, even in married life, there is a possibility of constantly causing conflicts.
6. Pleasing the Husband
Wife who can please her husband, then she will become her husband's savior in the afterlife. There are various ways that a wife can do to please her husband. For example, dressing up in front of her husband, giving gentle and touching words, serving her husband well, and many more. By doing so, the husband will feel happy and this can prevent him from committing sins.
7. Maintaining the Honor and Wealth of the Husband
The following is the translation of the given "Bahasa" text to "English" while preserving any HTML tags: The criteria of a wife who can also save her husband in the afterlife is to preserve her husband's honor and wealth. Considering that a husband's responsibility is to earn a living. Therefore, a wife should be able to take good care of the wealth that her husband has painstakingly earned. For example, by using that wealth for goodness and using it for something that is truly needed by the family.
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