Turns Out This is the Cause of a Wife Being Lazy to Have Intimate Relations with Her Husband

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"Turns out, this is the reason why the wife is lazy to have intimate relations with her husband."

Dream - Intimate relations between husband and wife are usually the spice that enhances harmony in a household. However, it must be remembered that intimate relations are not just ordinary pleasure and enjoyment that can be obtained by husband and wife. There are times when the wife is not in the mood for intimate relations. Although in Islamic teachings, rejecting the husband's invitation to have sexual intercourse will be cursed by Allah.

From Abu Hurairah radhiyallah 'anhu, he said: The Messenger of Allah SAW said: "When a man invites his wife to his bed and she refuses to come, then the man sleeps in anger towards her for the whole night, he will be cursed by the angels until dawn."

"(HR. Ahmad, Bukhari and Muslim)."

Based on the above hadith, all scholars agree and state that it is forbidden (a major sin) for a wife to refuse her husband's invitation to engage in a relationship without any justified reason or excuse sanctioned by the sharia. This is because such refusal can lead to the husband's obligation to provide sustenance being nullified. However, this hadith cannot be interpreted literally. It is possible that the wife's refusal is due to a reason or excuse justified by the sharia, in which case the refusal does not make the wife sinful and does not nullify the husband's obligation to provide sustenance.

Turns Out This is the Cause of a Wife Being Lazy to Have Intimate Relations with Her Husband

There are several reasons that usually cause a wife to refuse her husband's invitation to have intercourse. Husbands need to know this in order to understand their wife's condition, so that there is no coercion in performing the Prophet's tradition. Here are some reasons why wives are reluctant to have intimate relations with their husbands that need to be known.

1. Breastfeeding

It is necessary for Dream Friends to know that a breastfeeding wife will produce prolactin hormones which tend to decrease the desire for intercourse. Moreover, a wife who is in the breastfeeding period usually also experiences great fatigue. This can be a factor for them to be lazy in having intimate relations with their husband. Their energy has been drained to take care of the breastfeeding baby.

2. Fatigue and Lack of Sleep

Lack of sleep will certainly make stamina not good and this is closely related to the desire for a relationship. Most wives who lack sleep and fatigue are reluctant to engage. Especially wives who are alone in taking care of the house and children, lack of sleep has become a problem that often infects them.

3. Stress and Heavy Mental Burden

Stress causes the body to enter into fight or flight mode. This makes it difficult for the body to engage in various activities, including sexual desire. Several studies have shown that an increase in stress hormones such as cortisol can lead to a decrease in sexual drive.

4. Menstruation Phase

When a wife is experiencing menstruation, her body will undergo hormonal changes that can cause a decrease in sexual desire. In addition, the uncomfortable sensations and excessive pain during menstruation often make women reluctant to engage in sexual intercourse. Moreover, in Islam, there is a prohibition on having sexual intercourse with a wife who is menstruating. There are many negative impacts that can arise from having intimate relations when the wife is menstruating.

5. Suffering from Chronic Illness

Some diseases can directly affect a person's sexual desire. An example is stress, which is often triggered by certain diseases. Especially, women with health problems in their intimate organs are vulnerable to experiencing a decrease in sexual desire. Examples of chronic diseases that cause wives to be lazy in having sexual intercourse are endometriosis, pelvic disorders, vaginitis, and PCOS. All of these conditions can significantly decrease the desire to have sexual intercourse.

That is some of the reasons why wives are lazy to have intimate relations with their husbands. Husbands must know the condition of their wives so as not to misunderstand if they refuse the invitation to have relations. The condition of the wife greatly affects libido, so husbands should pay full attention to the wife's health condition both physically and mentally.

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